Linda Rollins

Female

Jacksonville, FL

United States

Profile Information:

Relationship Status:
Single
About Me:
I'm a 53 year old divorced mother of 3 grown kids, and 4 grandkids. Im very down to earth, easy to get along with, and very easy to talk to, I'm a little shy around people until I get to know them.

I believe I've had alopecia since my early twenties. A co-worker (a guy) use to always tell me "you have a bald spot in the back" and I would always just blow him off because he teased me all the time and because back then (early 80's) I use to roller set my hair and I just thought that I didn't comb out my parts. It wasn't until I decided to get all my hair cut short so I could wear a leisure curl that I noticed the bald spots. Not long after that, I started noticing small pimples and my head would itch. Upon scratching, I would scratch the head off the pimples which would turn into a sores, once again I would scratch and the scalbs would come off along with the hair follicle.

I started going to the dermatologist on base and they prescribed some tar shampoo that made my hair come out by the handful. Then I started the shots in my scalp which were painfull and expensive. I then tried Rogain and that only grew hairs on my face!! So then I tried hair vitamins and that only made my existing hair longer. Then I tried the laser comb treatment and that didn't work either plus this too was expensive. So for about 10 yrs I just kept taking the hair vitamins and used my remaining growing hair to cover up my bald spots but this limited me as far as hair styles and I was afraid to be in any type of wind or let my car windows down. It also interferred with me dating because I was afraid the guys would notice and ask questions. Finally in 2005 I went to a hair restoration company and purchased a hair system (after contemplating for about 5 yrs). It worked for me but was just too expensive and I had to keep signing yearly contracts. Most of the pictures you see is that hair system. This May 2010, I decided to try to lace front wig which is what you see now, which saved me about $1300 a year but I'm not happy with it either. Now I'm looking into something else, so i'm looking and listening to everyone's comments. I'm investigating the vacuum suction wigs, the freedom wigs, and now the grippers. I just want something that's secure, looks natural and won't send me to the poor house.

I still have problems dating because the guys always ask questions like "is that your real hair" and why do women feel they need to wear extentions and so on.... and I just don't like trying to explain it especially if they are not someone who is going to stick around and be in a committed relationship. I'm just tired of people judging me which is why I'm so glad that I found this site, it feels good to know there are others like me going thru some of the same problems and having some of the same issues.

Thanks for creating this site and thanks to everyone that I've had the pleasure of communicating with so far....
Do you have alopecia?
Alopecia areata
Are you age 18 or older?
Yes - I am 18 or older

Comment Wall:

  • Carmen West

    Hi Linda,

    Who cuts your pieces? They look fantistic!
    Carmen West, Hairstylist.
  • Tiffany P

    Welcome to AW! I love your pics and the hair looks natural. i just started the whole wig eperience and yes it is a challenge, i most of the time wear scarves. Dont you hate it when people play 20 questions about your hair? grrr anyway hope all is well on your end and have a great week :o)
  • Tiffany P

    The problem is that people have become more rude as of late. I try to ignore people as much as i can and keep moving because in the end its not worth stressing myself over. Boy has it been hot lately thats why i usually wear scarves half of the time, i have a wig but i dont wear it much, the good thing is that i like it and that it was on sale woohoo lol anyway have a great say and hope to speak agian :o)
  • Linda

    Hi Linda, welcome to alopeciaworld! We have similar symptoms, but I've had mine since I was about 9 yrs old. I shaved my head in 2008, but now it's growing in and I wear a lace front, they're okay, but I'm a "freebird" and may have to shave my head again so that I have no worries!
  • Trina Berry

    Linda,
    Thanks for the friendship add and the photo compliments. I'm just trying to adjust to this condition and this site has really helped me tremendously. I just have to gain the confidence and courage to go out in public without my wig. My fiance has been very supportive, he's the one that took the pictures (he's a photographer).
  • LeslieAnn Butler

    Hello and welcome, Linda!
    You are gorgeous. How are you today?
    LeslieAnn
    P.S. I am single and dating, too so I may be able to help with advice on that situation.
  • LeslieAnn Butler

    Sure! What is it that is most difficult? When to tell a guy? How to tell him?
    I have a whole chapter on this stuff in my book, did a lot of talking to other women on how they handled this, too.
  • LeslieAnn Butler

    You are doing just what I do -- tell them when things seem to merit it. For example, if the guy is getting close and wants to put his hand on your neck -- if he wants to kiss you he will probably be touching your hair. So that's when I tell him. I always tell before someone asks. Usually they are surprised and would have never guessed.
  • Pat Latina

    Nice profile picture.
  • Nesha B.

    Thank u for adding me:) I hope that you are having a great week!

    Nesha
  • Samantha

    Hi Linda, I love your pictures. I also enjoy traveling, I'm trying not to let my hair issues stop me from it. You know long plane rides and being worried my hair is in the right place when we land so no one sees my thinning. I'm new to the site and to wearing wigs. I have bought 3 of them and don't wear them. I just hate the questions when I do. Thanks for showing us we can still travel and look beautiful doing it.
  • Samantha

    Linda I'm sort of new to this, so forgive me. What is hair system and how do I get one? Your hair looks so natural and pretty.
  • Valerie Hutcherson

    Hi Linda,
    I'm new here and can totally relate to your AA story. I just bought my first lace wig and would love to talk to you about where you buy yours, hair care etc. Your pics look fabulous!!
    Valerie
  • Valerie Hutcherson

    I purchased mine from a salon as well for $500 and in one month, it's tangling!! Ugh! I'm still looking into other options. You'll have to tell me how the freedom wig works out.
  • peter moro

    you are welcome would love to et to know you better
  • Pat Latina

    Hey Linda - How are you? Hope you had a good Thanksgiving, can't believe Christmas is around the corner. Hope you are well. Take care.
  • youarebeautiful

    You are such a beautiful lady. I can related. I tried the "system" and just did not want to keep paying the huge monthly fees. . .still did not like the glue they put on your head--and they had the shave some of the hair I had.

    I had beautiful hair growing up, but still had the balding at the temples. I figured it was hereditary and prayed prayed prayed that the hair would grow. It seemed like a cruel joke that God would play on us. So now, I wear wigs--yes, sometimes I want to throw it across the room, but I like the fact that I can take it off when I get home and rub my scalp or wash the hair that I have. God bless you for being so courageous.

    As far as dating, I'm sure you tell some stories. When the right man comes along, you will know when it is safe to share this information. We live in a superficial society that still thinks that hair/long hair is the only beauty symbol out there. Hang in there and thank you.
  • Pat Latina

    Just stop by to say "Hey!!!!!!!" Hope you're well. Take care.
  • Tracy

    Hello Linda, I read your story and it was interesting. I have had alopecia on and off my entire adulthood and it started at age 12. I have dated, been engaged and married. I was so lucky about how I felt about it. It has gotten to me at times when I was younger and then when I lost all of my hair at age 37 approx after a surgery and I have worn wigs, and full lace wigs since. I just think my different looks at being a woman with the versitility of change. I try to stay positive and I want to look on the outside as good as I feel in the inside. I think you should date, you are an attractive woman and I really don't think there would be a problem attracting men. I would love to hear more about your freedom wig. Drop me a note when you have time. Bye for now.
  • Tracy

    You have done more than me. My mom, sister and I showed my son one time 5 or so years ago. To date I have never shown my husband or anyone else. I have a couple of friends who know but have never seen my bald head. I have always worn something on my head even in the house. My husband knows but has never seen. He compliments me on my looks all the time before I lost all my hair and still to date. He is very supportive when it comes to my alopecia and so is my sister and mom. It is very nice speaking to you KIT. I'm in Illinois and it has been in the 30's, 40's and 50's lately in regards to temperature. I am jealous of your weather. Is the freedom wig like a lace wig or what?
  • Gerilyn L

    Wow - your wig looks great! Very natural. I just got a new wig but am not looking forward to my second summer in a wig. Take care. 
  • R0BB

    Hi Linda - Thanks for the add and hope youre having a great day :)