i do not have alopecia, but i have had several friends(some on this site) who have. after browsing through a few profiles, i was inspired to write. many ladies on this site express their fear of rejection or question their sensual appeal. please believe that many find you VERY SEXXY in your natural state. confidence in presenting oneself AS oneself is super attractive. acceptance of oneself IS strength... remember, evreyone won't get it...but the right people will. and in many ways that gives you an advantage to see who really cares about you... here is a man who sees you as attractive as anyone else on the outside... but it is the inside that is the key to lasting friendship peace & respect
I appreciate you sharing your thoughts and more importantly taking the time to visit and join this site. I believe there are more women with alopecia than many believe. Wigs, braids, etc. makes it hard for one to always tell. I think the confidence a woman displays makes the difference and I mirror many of your comments...THANKS!
Very uplifting comment, Terrence. It's the first time I've ever heard ANYTHING positive about women with alopecia from the lips of an African-American man. Thank you!
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