yeah, that is definitly the hardest part. I ended up accepting that mine was going to fall out anyway and shaved what was left off but it took a long while for me to get to that point, I held on to it for as long as I possibly could. Once I did it though it was the best thing I could have done, helps you to move forward in accepting everything and now that I am AT I thank god I had the guts to do it, watching my hair come out like that would have sent me around the bend. I was at the point where I was wearing a wig though and I knew there was no way it was going to stop falling out, but I definitly know how hard it is to contemplate shaved heads and wearing wigs when you're not at that point. How much loss do you have?

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I havent lost all of my hair yet (even though ive had it my hole life) areas that i lost grew back then fell out again and now i have like almost no hair but it looks like i have a lot when i wear a hat. Im pretty sure most of the people on here really are as brave as they sound some people might use it as a front but i dont really know . I do know that im not even close to being as brave about this as some of the people on here it just takes some time.

Right now I am losing it all over my head. I have some thin spots near both temples, on the top of my head and behind my eats at the nape. I had soooo much hair that I am amazed at what has fallen out. I used to have to ask my hairdresser to thin out my hair when she cut it and now I just can't believe my eyes. My picture that is posted was taken in the begining of July, I can't do my hair in that style and make it look the same to me - that is pretty rapid I think. They say stress makes it worse, well how can you not stress about losing your hair??? Ugh. How about you, where are you at with your hair? It really does help to vent and listen to what you and others are going through.