Tamika

51, Female

Columbus/Dayton

United States

Profile Information:

Relationship Status:
Single
About Me:
Hello everyone! I am a 35 yr old mother of three, beautiful children..I am separated..and I have alopecia. I first experienced alopecia in 2001, when I suffered two losses. First of all, I found out that a good friend of mine had cancer, and didn't have long to live. I begin to care for him, take him to appointments, and watch as his other so-called friends and family disappeared..It hurt me to watch him, and I begin to feel stressed. Next my grandfather died In April. In five months my good friend passed, and I was also in a bad relationship. Anyway, I became very depressed, not wanting to get out of bed...and I was so out of it..I never noticed how the stress was affecting me physically. One day I went to work, and some of the ladies at work kept staring at the back of my head. I knew that they were talking about me, and some of them laughed. I shrugged it off, and kept working. When I went home that evening I took a mirror and looked. I was horrified! I had a huge bald spot forming in the crown of my head. Then I noticed that the hair that used to get in my eyes all the time was gone. I wanted to die! I had been so vain about my hair..and having low self esteem..I honestly felt like hair.was all I had to hold onto. I have struggled since then with hair loss, and stress. I am learning to see my beauty with or without hair, and I won't lie to you..it has been extremely hard. So I am very excited to be apart of this community..because for so long..I felt like i was alone. Now I see that so many are affected...and alopecia is not the end of the world. God Bless everyone who comes to my page.
Are you age 18 or older?
Yes
Your Website (Leave blank if you don't have one):
http://www.myspace.com/stephamika

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  • rj, Co-founder

    Happy birthday, Tamika! :-)
  • Cheryl, Co-founder

    Happy Birthday Tamika!
  • Steve E.

    As the old saying goes "better late than never" First of all, I apologize for taking so long to respond. Tamika, you are a most beautiful Sista with the whole world to look forward too. Keep pushing even though times get tuff. Stay in the race and know the woman dont make the hair... she make the head and yours is perfect, beautiful and blessed. My family and I look forward
    to meeting you someday.