Darlenys

37, Female

Hoboken, NJ

United States

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In a Relationship
About Me:
Hey!
So I'm just signed up to this site...There will be more info here come :)

* I go to Rutgers University and I'm majoring in Psychology and Spanish Translations/ Interpretations.

* Enjoy Singing! Woo!

* I've had alopecia since I was in the 4th grade. Doctor's really didn't diagnose it though right away, because they weren't even sure what it was. Others would tell me that I was just not eating healthy and that's why my hair was falling out ( I don't know how many of you have heard that before).But I know that what you eat does affect how much or how healthy your hair will be, but it's just weird because I was in the fourth grade! I was recommended to a psychologist because they thought that I was very anxious and they wanted me to join a support group of other kids that had emotional problems (ie. Anger problems, violent kids...me??) My mom wasn't too thrilled about this and just decided that I shouldn't go anymore. Talking about my hairloss with the psychologist was a little helpful, but it was hard... I was thinking that something was deeply wrong with me since I was going to a psychologist.( Side note: so I remember one of the questions too lol, "do you know when it's going to fall out, do you feel it when your hair falls out?" I would ask myself "what?" But I still described to her an answer according to her question, but I never really experienced this.) Now, just about 13 years later, here I am, learning to just accept AA.It was something really hard to cope with at such an early age, as many of you can attest to, with kids making fun of you and just being plain mean. I just don't get why we could be so insensitive to people when we don't even know what's going on with them. But I'm learning and believe that God has a purpose with everything. He knows how many hairs are on our head...n since well some of us don't :) he knows why we don't. There's a purpose that hopefully later on we'll soon come to find out.

I do have a pretty cute small head. Lol I still haven't been able to go fully bare (n I do want to), but it's a working progress:)

Just a little to share.
Do you have alopecia?
Alopecia areata
Are you age 18 or older?
Yes
Your Website (Leave blank if you don't have one):
http://myspace.com/darlenys

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  • elvira delgado

    HI DARLENY
    I HAVE ALOPECIA FOR ABOUT 3 YEARS NOW IT TOOK THE DOCTOR A YEAR TO TELL ME WHAT WAS WRONG WITH ME IT WAS VERY HARD
    NO ONE ELSE IN MY FAMILY HAS IT THE FIRST YEAR WAS VERY TOUGH I LIKE YOU'RE MOM HAD A DREAM OF MY HAIR REGROWING
    BUT I GUESS IT WAS BECAUSE I WILL ALWAYS BE THINKING ABOUT IT OR CRY OVER IT I WILL WAKE UP AND RUN TO THE
    MIRROR WISHING MY DREAM HAD COME TRUE BUT NOTHING
    I ALSO HAVE A 2 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER SHE DOES NOT HAVE ALOPECIA THANK GOD FOR THAT BUT AM SCARE THAT ONE DAY SHE MIGHT SINCE I HAD ALOPECIA WHEN A WAS PREGNANT
    I ALSO SPOKE TO PEGGY THE PRICE IS A LITTLE HIGH I HAD CONSIDER GETTING IT FOR ME BUT IS TO MUCH FOR MY BUDGET RIGHT NOW MAYBE NEXT YEAR TELL ME HOW IT GOES WHEN YOU GET YOU'RE PLEASE SHE SAYS IS LIKE HAVING YOU'RE
    OWN HAIR AGAIN WELL NICE TALKING TO YOU
    HOPE WE CAN BE FRIENDS BYE NOW.
  • Linda

    Hi Darlenys, welcome to Alopeciaworld!
  • shemika

    i think i have to be your friend b4 i can give you my number...but yes ill participate.