what sort do you have? mine is back now but i lost a little bit at the back of my head a couple of weeks ago si im keeping an eye on it because in my experience, a little bit means a lot after a couple of months. i know what you mean though, i lost about a third of my hair a couple of years ago and i hated it and didnt know what to do! but in my opinion, youv just got to make the best of it because unless doctors or wteva can find somethin actually physically wrong with you, you cant just sit there worrying about it :)
if you ever wanna chat about it though, just message! :D x

i know what you mean with the whole superficial society thing, i had a bit of trouble with some guys that were a bit judgemental but i just give as good as i get lol. i don't think it's as bad as all that though to be honest. looking back, i think that sometimes we think its worse than it actually is because we're the ones with e self-esteem issue - which is only natural to say that something negative has impacted on our identity. i don't know if it's different for a guy though with it being a bit more socially accepted for a guy to have a shaved head?!

i used to get so jealous of people with full heads of hair too, i couldnt bear (and still find it difficult) to look at old pictures of myself because even though mine has grown back, it is nowhere near as think and it takes a lot of work with it all beign at different lengths etc.

i think its a case of feeling as though it isnt as good as you, and you shouldnt bedefined by alopecia. you're still you. you've just got a new and very inconvenient challenge.

dont worry about raving on, we all do it lol. its what this site's for :) x