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Alopecia....
As a guy who has lost my full head of hair after knowing how people use to treat you is a major hard time coping with it...
When I was younger I use to have friends, got picked first in gym class, teachers adored me, had straight A's, and girls really liked me. I had long brown hair that was straight. When I lost my hair I constantly got ignored by friends (which are not friends but when you have no friends at all what is a friend?) did not get picked in gym, teachers stared like I was an alien/never called on me so I sat in the back of the classroom my average went from straight A's to D's and F's, actually I had to sit by myself in 11th grade and I finally gave up on being teased/bullied every day until I quit school to go to online classes. I finally found my first real girlfriend online who I dated for a year before going to meet her in real life. I flew to Florida to be with her and brought her back to PA. We eventually had a daughter but cheated on me three times because of the Alopecia and abandoned me and my daughter. I finally got A's and B's again after all this negativity and even got my Associates. I am going straight through for my Bachelor's and Master's. The one problem I am having though is I still do not have any friends who I can even call friends. And any time I speak to a woman I think she is either too good for me or ignores me because of the Alopecia/won't give a chance to me.
I hate the thought of getting shots or other things that have a minimal chance to grow my hair back and yet everyone says hair is nothing is just lieing.... I have personally been confident about this yet confidence has not received me anything but more negativity. Plus almost all guys wigs cost a lot of money but look like garbage compared to girl wigs.
And for the people who are going to say maybe you weren't doing things right in the relationship. Every time I have dated anyone I have done exactly what a girl says she wants... (Romantic dinners, Flowers, Adventures, Concerts, Bowling, Movies, Caring, Loving, and everything else) It has not worked for me at all because I am never given the chance without being blown off...
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Permalink Reply by T on
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Making friends in this day and age where girls seem to care about looks the most in there 20-30's makes it very hard to show how great of a guy I am....
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Having none at all is a major difference. Girls treat you like you are a freak. I have none at all. I have been confident about Alopecia not one care in the world. It is getting me nowhere. When I try to hangout or chill with people I always get blown off or ignored.
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Permalink Reply by Dom on
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I have no hair and a few semi permanent tattoos.
No one is treating me like a freak, least of all women.
I will write something later.
Have a game of golf to play
ADIOS Tyler
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Permalink Reply by Fabs on
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20 years right now. I still have friends and a girlfriend. Maybe you should try something like D&D or MtG? those people are mostly friendly.
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I have alopecia and as a result women show absolutely zero interest in me. Being a mad with alopecia is much harder than being a woman. Women are absolutely unforgiving of men's flaws.
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