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hiiiiiiiii riends,,,i am new to this site,,,i have joined this site today only,,,,,am suffering frm alpecia from 15-20 years and presently using a hair wig from last ten years............. am 30 years and my paents are really worry about my marriage and no one would like to marry a bald girl....my society is very conservative,,,sometimes feel why God did this to me,,,,,i don't know what's written in my future..........i don't know whether my hair will ever grow or won't..........
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Permalink Reply by Tallgirl on
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Hi Shelly,
Just start reading all the old and new messages on this site, because you will find every thought imaginable. None of us knows the future, but you will find many bald bride photos on the PHOTOS page above, with some good stories about love, too. Also see www.naaf.org for research and support in your area. It seems to help when one can actually meet another person with alopecia...and you have many others to write to here! Once you start to care about the others, too, your own problems lessen.
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Permalink Reply by Bald and Fabulous AKA Terri on
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Hi and welcome.
I hope this site helps you as much as it helped and still helping me. Its wonderful to talk and discuss what we are feeling with others that are going thru the same thing. Everyone here are wonderfully supportive. Your questions are the same ones that I that I have been dealing with since I was first diagnosed with alopecia ( when I was 8/9 yrs old....26 yrs). There has been alot of ups and downs during that time of hair falling out and growing back in. Today Im bald. What I learned and thru this site, trying to accept is not to worry about if it is all going to grow back in. Easier said than done I know. But the funny thing is ..... it does get easier.
Believe in the strength you have and trust your decisions.
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Permalink Reply by Valerie Hutcherson on
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Hi there,
I'm new to this site and it is a wonderful source of support to see that there are so many people who can connect to what you're feeling. I lost my hair at 7yrs old (33 years ago!) and have experienced what you are feeling. I still have feelings of insecurity from time to time but mostly now, I feel like...I AM NOT MY HAIR. People will love and accept me for who I am if I do, know what I mean? I can tell you that when I went off to college, I was petrified about anyone finding out about my alopecia and worried endlessly that no one would date someone with no hair. I was WRONG...I dated plenty and am now happily married. You will find love; don't worry but first, you must focus on loving your bald self.I know it's easier said than done but take it day by day and come hear and read and i'm sure you will feel better. I already do after less than a week on the site. I wish there was something like this whenI was growing up. I wish you all the best!
Valerie
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Permalink Reply by Emory on
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Alopecia will affect your life as much as you allow. If you choose to be a fully realized human being, then it cannot stop you. By fully realized I mean realizing all of your potential. Ability to grow hair is just a small aspect of your life.
Get after an aspect that, unlike growing hair, you can control. Be triumphant. Here are some thing I'm doing.
Exercise, eating health, seeking out better interpersonal relationships, working hard, and moving forward wherever I can.
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