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Permalink Reply by Andrey on July 13, 2015 at 3:40pm

I'm sure its not so bad. Just call up one of the other 30 guys that are begging to be with you.

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Permalink Reply by Andrey on July 14, 2015 at 7:48pm

You do have lots of guys after you. Simply you don't acknowledge most of them because they aren't up to your standards

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Permalink Reply by femmemuscle on July 14, 2015 at 4:49pm

OP,

If it helps, i think you're not alone on the way you feel. But you know what? You probably don't see what others see?

this may sound crazy, but when i see a man or a woman completely without hair?  I tend to think they are sexier than the ones that walk around flipping their long keratin strands, really.  

Over the years, i've learned to be an extension/wig wearer expert.  More than 50% of the ladies in the store i was shopping for groceries were wearing a wig, or glue-in extensions to volumize their already thin/fine hair.  Many of us have hair, but still don't feel "sexy" or "attractive".

Once, i was leaving Costco and a bald woman came in.  Something about her made her far more attractive than those of us that are struggling to look as if we had a full head of hair.  She had a glow, and her eyes were gorgeous.  She only wore lipstick - that was it.  I didn't want to make a scene, so i smiled and said: "Lady, you're HAWT!!!".. we both giggled, and i kept going.

When i watch my husband cooking or concentrating on his work, (He's an alopecia sufferer, and decided to shave his head at 24?), i find him more attractive that the long, wavy, blonde-haired blue eyed Mel Gibson look alike bodybuilder ex-boyfriend that i  endured for 7 years.  

People that are bold enough to shave their head and be confident are amazing.

I have a big, rocky head so i know i can't shave. LOL!

Don't be shy Michela - we know there are guys out there who are very attracted to you.

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