y cant i just move on

i think its gettin worse i still cant get over the fact that iv no hair all my life iv had it and it just aint getting any easyer i got my eye brows cosmeticly done cause i though it would make me fell better i just wont to be able to trow me hair up if im just sitting around but i cant but i cant all i can do with my wig is leave it down my 2yr old son tryed to pull the wig off my head the other day he hasnt got a clue hes still to young to under stand it just kilt me i put on the brave an tough front so my family dont worry about me but its killing inside
i no if i had of had hair i wouldnt be the nice kind louise every one no's today id probly be a bitch
will i ever get over it?????

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Permalink Reply by Heather on September 29, 2011 at 10:17pm
Hi Louise?
How have you been since you wrote this? I hope you're doing okay. I think everyone who has Alopecia has had moments like these, but I also know a lot of us have found ways to cope. Personally, I try to focus on the positive. I know, it sounds unbearably cheesy, but honestly, being positive about my hairloss is what has gotten me through. I used to look at being bald as a bad thing, but now it's just a part of me and I accept it. Think of what you have learned from it. You said yourself you think it has made you a nicer person! Isn't that worth something? Think of your son growing up with his mother having this condition. He will grow up with a huge sense of acceptance that most people don't get until they're much older. It seems like this awful thing, but think about how it makes you different, special. It gives you an edge, and gives you the opportunity to use this experience as a growing, learning opportunity.
People will always judge you for having no hair, as they will judge me, and the rest of us here. But are those people really the ones you want in your life anyways? Focus on the good things, and hopefully things will feel better!

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