Well, I wish I had the internet while growing up. This seems like a great community...and so many Canadians! It warmed my heart to stumble across this site.
I've had AU since I was 10 years old. Last summer, while skinny dipping at a lake, was the first time in 17 years where I felt rays of sunshine on my head. It was the most beautiful feeling.
Currently, I live in Montreal, but will be relocating to Toronto this summer to start a grad program in Film Studies.
I look forward to communicating with some of you here and making a positive contribution to the community.
I always like reading about another asian with alopecia who has basically just gotten on with life and able to achieve in whatever they want to do. I think you look absolutely beautiful and I hope that my daughter when she grows up can show the same confidence as you.
Hi Stephanie, I wanted to welcome you to Alopecia World. I can honestly say that we are a great community here and I hope you enjoy the time you spend with us. Cheryl, co-founder
Hi Stephanie, thanks for your kind compliments! I agree that fashion and alopecia are some what opposites, but I guess its all in the way you look at it. I just try to make the best of my situation and I'm so used to it now. Looks like we've both been dealing with our AU for a long time, is it still a daily "struggle" for you or is it just a part of who you are?
On th film note, I have a friend (I believe he still does this), who runs the Toronto Film Festival and many other friends who have/and still work in the industry there. Its a very interesting field to explore.....I'm sure you'll like relocating to Toronto. :-)
Hi Stephanie,
We are at least 3 Alopecians on the MTL island ;-)
I live in Ahunstic, near Boulevard Gouin, so it was not me you saw.
Tell me, do you have good store for hats? I usually buy mine at Chapeau-Folie on St-Denis (south of Mont-Royal).
Diane
Welcome! I like your profile picture, you look very happy in it. I'm sure you will have fun in Toronto when you come and your program sounds so interesting. Hope to talk to you some time!
I just got rid of my wig a mere 3 yrs ago, and it has to really be storming outside before i wear a hat, people have no idea as to the feeling of a breeze or the sun is like when you've sported a wig for years. I wanted to share a name with you, since you are moving to Toronto. There is a great dermatologist there who has been working with people with alopecia for many many years. When I was very young, she tried so hard to help me with self acceptance, and last year I travelled a distance to see her with another issue, and was so proud to walk in her office with my cute lil head. I like your cute lil hat!
Her name is Nadine Hradsky, she's downtown Toronto, bloor street. I would guess she's in her late 50's, she was doing the steroid thing back in the late 70's, when many doc's had no idea what Alopecia was. Its great tho that your not doing the doctor thing, acceptance is the very best medicine of all.
Going bare is a huge adjustment, people do stare, and sometimes i feel uncomfortable. The tat was put while I was still in scarves, and the entire idea of it was, when people stare, rather than feel alien, I could think in my heart, they weren't staring at all, but looking at my tat. Yes it hurt, but, it didn't hurt anywhere as bad as all the comments, cruelty-wig pulling teasing, even job losing, traumas I went thru. The tat has great simbology to it also, making it that much more personal.
Karen
I always like reading about another asian with alopecia who has basically just gotten on with life and able to achieve in whatever they want to do. I think you look absolutely beautiful and I hope that my daughter when she grows up can show the same confidence as you.
May 18, 2008
Roger
Roger.
May 19, 2008
Cheryl, Co-founder
May 19, 2008
Carmella
Hugs,
CAR
May 19, 2008
Cheryl, Co-founder
May 19, 2008
Cheryl, Co-founder
May 19, 2008
Orbit
On th film note, I have a friend (I believe he still does this), who runs the Toronto Film Festival and many other friends who have/and still work in the industry there. Its a very interesting field to explore.....I'm sure you'll like relocating to Toronto. :-)
May 20, 2008
Diane
We are at least 3 Alopecians on the MTL island ;-)
I live in Ahunstic, near Boulevard Gouin, so it was not me you saw.
Tell me, do you have good store for hats? I usually buy mine at Chapeau-Folie on St-Denis (south of Mont-Royal).
Diane
May 20, 2008
Carol
Welcome! I like your profile picture, you look very happy in it. I'm sure you will have fun in Toronto when you come and your program sounds so interesting. Hope to talk to you some time!
May 21, 2008
Roger
So how is Montreal to live in? I know its french spoken. Maybe Toronto is "better"?
Roger.
May 21, 2008
willow
I just got rid of my wig a mere 3 yrs ago, and it has to really be storming outside before i wear a hat, people have no idea as to the feeling of a breeze or the sun is like when you've sported a wig for years. I wanted to share a name with you, since you are moving to Toronto. There is a great dermatologist there who has been working with people with alopecia for many many years. When I was very young, she tried so hard to help me with self acceptance, and last year I travelled a distance to see her with another issue, and was so proud to walk in her office with my cute lil head. I like your cute lil hat!
May 21, 2008
Roger
May 22, 2008
willow
May 22, 2008
willow
May 22, 2008
Zoey
May 24, 2008
Paul
May 24, 2008
LeslieAnn Butler
I love Montreal! I visited last year and it's a wonderful city. Do you speak French?
A bientot,
LeslieAnn
May 25, 2008
LeslieAnn Butler
Please let me know what you think of the book --
a big hug,
LeslieAnn
May 27, 2008