Maybe you can get it thinned out? I know many 40-50 year old ladies who have great natural hair. I used to get the jean reneau ones. Let me know if you find something you like.

Hi I am new to this.. are you referring to me Cathi?

Well, I got it in November, so I am not sure how long it will last. The sales person assured me people have them for 4-5 years. It has a 1 year guarantee. I like it -- so far so good! When I wear it open, it is very lush and thick.  

Negatives: It is heavier than what I'm used to and I don't think I would get the velvet lining next time. The hair falls downward (sheital style). This was minimally processed so I wouldn't dye it/highlight it any time soon. I would not swim in this. Email Ellie at Fortune wigs and ask her.   From a local hair place, I purchased "cyber hair" also but I was very disappointed in it's real feel--- it's great for swimming though.   It was super expensive (2k) and my Mazali is about $700 (Look for their Jewish holiday sales-- they cater mostly to orthodox women).

Hey, just read you're getting my book. I hope you enjoy it! Let me know, okay? Hugs!

Yes, I'm a single person too. It sorta separates the men from the boys, doesn't it?