Or rather... Don't hug me unless you're just actually giving a hug for the sake of giving a hug or if you're someone I love.

I love giving hugs and getting hugs. I meet a new friend? They get a hug. I see my family? They get a hug. Even my mom's co-workers got hugs.

But what I don't like are pity hugs. It always seems to shock me what people will say to me when they ask: "Can I give you a hug?"

Stupidly I always fall for it. Because I like hugs. I like the warmth and the…