I have had a wonderful summer this year. My first one being officially divorced. I took my first (of many) summertime vacations , a chance to play and sit beside my pond. I started to wear wigs out all the time .I joined this wonderful site and no longer feel alone in my differentness. I have found a peace inside me that I have not known in over twenty years. A meddling occurred between my two selves and I was able to see my life in it's completness, no more swiss cheese memory. All the good and bad memories of the past 26 years flow like water for me now. They don't hurt me anymore. How did this occur?...because "Lorre "and I agreed on one thing ,that Frank has a great smile and says all the right words and that we would give him a chance in our lives. One skinny little florida man repaired my soul and has me believing in love again,even 1200 miles away. I don't know what the future holds but I know I can face anything now ,with my head held high, either bald or wigged. I am truly happy and at peace.