Acceptance

Hey, I have never blogged on here before, but I feel that it is FOR SURE time. :) I am trying to accept this whole "bald" thing, but it is SOOO hard. I always had BEAUTIFUL hair and out of NOWHERE, I started losing it and two years later, I am fixing to have to get a wig. (so hard). During this time I have gotten divorced. I only really stayed in it because of my insecurities, but have found an AMAZING boyfriend that goes wig shopping with me and lets me cry on his shoulder. I am so lucky, but I am SO scared when I finally shave my head that he will run the other way. He always tells me how beautiful I am and that he does not care and he is totally prepared, but its SO hard for me to accept it. Ugghhh!!! Well, I do thank GOD for him and my family, I'd be SOO lost!

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Comment by Tallgirl on August 5, 2010 at 9:21pm
Yes, you MIGHT chase him away...so, show the positive side and don't let the sun catch you crying. Or complaining. Or worrying and obsessing in front of him.
Comment by Lauren on August 5, 2010 at 2:28am
Sounds really smart. I keep warning him that I WILL be bald, and he keeps telling me that he doesnt care. I am going to chase him away if I keep nagging him about accepting it.... Its just hard to think of someone accepting it when its SOOO hard for me to. :(
Comment by Tallgirl on August 5, 2010 at 1:09am
If you are going to cover it up anyway, can you lessen your fears by leaving at least a bit of soft hair on your head for now? Then you can see how your boyfriend reacts as to a LITTLE hair before you jump to shaving. Test it out slowly...hmmm?

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