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Acceptance
Hey, I have never blogged on here before, but I feel that it is FOR SURE time. :) I am trying to accept this whole "bald" thing, but it is SOOO hard. I always had BEAUTIFUL hair and out of NOWHERE, I started losing it and two years later, I am fixing to have to get a wig. (so hard). During this time I have gotten divorced. I only really stayed in it because of my insecurities, but have found an AMAZING boyfriend that goes wig shopping with me and lets me cry on his shoulder. I am so lucky, but I am SO scared when I finally shave my head that he will run the other way. He always tells me how beautiful I am and that he does not care and he is totally prepared, but its SO hard for me to accept it. Ugghhh!!! Well, I do thank GOD for him and my family, I'd be SOO lost!
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Comment by Tallgirl on August 5, 2010 at 1:09am
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If you are going to cover it up anyway, can you lessen your fears by leaving at least a bit of soft hair on your head for now? Then you can see how your boyfriend reacts as to a LITTLE hair before you jump to shaving. Test it out slowly...hmmm?
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Comment by Lauren on August 5, 2010 at 2:28am
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Sounds really smart. I keep warning him that I WILL be bald, and he keeps telling me that he doesnt care. I am going to chase him away if I keep nagging him about accepting it.... Its just hard to think of someone accepting it when its SOOO hard for me to. :(
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Yes, you MIGHT chase him away...so, show the positive side and don't let the sun catch you crying. Or complaining. Or worrying and obsessing in front of him.
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