We all have a freedom of choice who we "accept" as friends on here, to whose opinions we respond, how we change our profile words, headings or photos, and what we wear on our heads. For me, I tend to stay away from trouble once I see that my words will have no impact for change or peace, or when I sense someone who has never even had a discussion with me suddenly wants to snoop at my personal conversation history or photos, and is very persistent about it only after seeing a certain photo in the last month or reading a joke.

You all have freedom to NOT use your own name or e-mail address, NOT list your town or personal business, NOT tell all your medical and mental details, NOT discuss your personal life or expose your children's names and photographs, and NOT show your own photograph or age. Some of you have learned that lesson the hard way...right?

This is a worldwide site, and I have recently removed names of many overseas contacts, or people who have not responded to me in conversations. I have been on this site for about two years, off and on...and have watched a lot of moods, photo choices, gripes, concerns (eyebrows, men, humor, compassion, outreach, anger, dating, health, treatments, responses to photos). At my age, my memory is not yet gone. I can remember what people have...and have not...said to me. Lately, I am choosing more and more to continue additions to a problem already listed to that same original blog on the same topic. If my friends are really interested in the progress of that worry, they know where to look, rather than watch my reintroducing the issue every week for the whole world to see. I am also choosing to just comment on someone's profile, personally...or to send private messages. Then, I do not embarrass anyone.

When I think someone might benefit from reading my attitude on life or wig choices, I may do a "Friend Request" for a short time. If the person never comments, I remove the person. But it is still my choice. I do not HAVE to chat, answer, describe, reveal etc. My personal joys are very special to me...and I reserve the right to keep them private! ; )