Comment by Alison on November 7, 2008 at 3:23am

go out with your mates and have fun and it will happen when u least expect it.

Comment by Mandy on November 7, 2008 at 12:55pm

Hey Brian. I'm sorry you're sad, but try not to be discouraged. Bald guys are HOTTTT! :o) You'll meet Miss Right when you least expect it.

Comment by Amanda Crouse on November 8, 2008 at 11:34pm

Brian,
You'll never get over felling like that. You just learn to cope. It's gets easier and easier the more that you forget about it. Some days it sneaks up on you out of nowhere, and you feel like OMG everyone is staring at me, then the next day it lesses a bit. You'll be ok. When you feel like that, act like there is nothing different. Walk around like you are Antonio Banderas and that the people are looking at you because you are that darn hot. Dillusion is not always a bad thing, it can be a coping tool. You know that you are attractive. You just forget it some days!!!

Comment by CSue on November 9, 2008 at 1:53pm

Don't give up, Brian. You're too young to resign yourself to being alone. You've already received some good advice here. Take on the attitude of your profile name ("I'm too sexy for my hair") and you will exude a confidence that will make others see beyond the hairloss.

Comment by Carissa on April 15, 2010 at 11:29am

Hey-I wouldn't get too worked up over it. If someone doesn't like you for your 'hair' that is hardly someone worth getting upset over. I'm sure that you, yourself, would much rather find a person who is going to love you regardless of what you look like, right?

And I think you're freaking yourself out. Dude, if she's with you and your looking at her eyes, SHE'S WITH YOU. That should be answer enough. If you ever have a self-confidence issue, cause we all have them, just as the person how they feel about you not having hair. It's a brave question, but since it's so honest and direct, that person will probably answer you. I think everything happens for a reason. And if you're not with someone right now, it's because you aren't comfortable with yourself yet, you know? I mean, how do you expect someone to accept you, when you don't even accept yourself? Just keep that in mind. But I think you're just having an off day. Feel better and good luck!

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