Comment by Lexi on January 16, 2013 at 10:05pm

You will like this site. Lots of help, support and people who truly understand what we are all going through. We don't all share the same way of thinking about hair loss, some of us cope so much better than others. Some embrace it, make lemonade out of the lemons as they say. Some have so much courage. I wish I had just some of that courage! Courage to not be so worried about what other people think or say, and just live my life for ME. Do what makes me feel happy and better about myself and life. Welcome to this wonderful forum.

Comment by Missy on January 17, 2013 at 8:10am

Thank you, Lexi.

Comment by Tallgirl on January 17, 2013 at 9:43am

See discussions, archived blogs, and groups. Read what has already been said, and many of your questions will be answered. The topics go in cycles here as new people join, but often you will find that a topic has already been discussed thoroughly at some point. Site photos and wig topics will definitely show you that you have lots of company with your current emotions. We have been there and weathered those first salon trips; you will survive this and become a pro at it.

Comment by Alliegator on January 17, 2013 at 10:07am

Welcome! I also have Androgenetic Alopecia. You are NOT alone. I think this site will really help you, and it has for me over the years. Just try to remember that you are not alone. And the acceptance that you need will come with time. You can get there, and there is light at the end of the tunnel. We are here for you! How was the wig shop? Did you purchase anything? Many of us on here wear wigs.

Comment by Missy on January 17, 2013 at 10:28pm

Thank you Tallgirl and Alliegator. I appreciate your words of support. I was apprehensive about the wig shop. It was a big step coming to terms with the fact that my hair is thinning to the point that it can no longer be hidden and a wig is in the horizon. The wig shop was ok. The consultant was very nice. I didn't find a wig I liked enough up buy though.

Comment by Lexi on January 18, 2013 at 10:14pm

Wise woman. Take your time and do as much research. Or you end up like me, a closet full of the wrong choices...impulse buys, things I was talked into, etc. No, I take back. You should just buy one wig that isn't so expensive. Just to wear sometimes out and about to get used to the idea of wearing a wig, and seeing yourself in it. And trying to feel comfortable in it. All the while, researching to try to find something that really suits you. Also, don't do as I do...get your wig thinned if needed, cut if needed, styled if needed. You will be happier with it.

Comment by Missy on January 19, 2013 at 7:10pm

Appreciate your support and insight, Lexi.

Comment by Annette on January 19, 2013 at 10:06pm

Welcome Missy I am also new to this site I have only had AA for 12 weeks now Buy\t last night I shaved what small amount of hair I had left, I feel so much better for it. Hope you find all the love and support you need here.

Comment by alamogirl/ aka Judy on January 20, 2013 at 3:51pm

Hi Missy. We all understand your fears and anxieties about wigs and all things alopecia. You are right now in one of the hardest times, when you now need a wig (if you choose to go that route). I felt so much better when I finally got my first wig and...a key thing here...had it styled to fit my face. That made all the difference. And if you can find a stylist who has dealt with AA people, so much the better. If I order online, I find my wig still must be styled. Just know you WILL be OK. I hope you soon get to the place where you can use humor to deflect awkward situations (like telling friends not to "wig out" over this-etc). I even joked around with a TSA employee after going through one of those full body scans; she then proceeded to pat my head as the wig was clearly obvious on the scan. I gave her a chuckle and thanked her for the puppy pat. We both laughed and it was OK. Blessings, Missy. You have support here.

Comment by Missy on January 20, 2013 at 11:33pm

Thank you Annette and Judy. Sometimes thinking about wearing a wig is liberating because I'd finally feel like I have enough hair. That I would look more like everyone else. At tge same time though it's scary to me. Does that make any sense? Btw. The wiggin out comment gave me a much needed laugh. Hearing from you all who know what this Alopecia journey feels like, makes me feel better. Being able to commiserate makes it all seem a lot less lonely.

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