I am a resent member to Alopecia World. Since joining I have visited the site everyday, read blogs, and joined some groups. I am in total amazement with this entire "world". I have suffered with alopecia for 21 years. It is funny as I sit in in front of the computer trying to get my thoughts out, I am overwhelmed with all that I have wanted to express about my life with alopecia for all of those 21 years. I don't want to bore anyone, but I guess if you don't want to read you don't have to. First let me say that I am completely content with who I am now, happily married with a beautiful daughter. Life has not always been so great. It was a long process to come to grips with who I was becoming and have become. The person I am today is nothing like the person I see in pictures from my youth. One thing that alopecia has given me is a great appreciation for the odd, for the imperfect, for the different. I spent most of my twenties trying to hide what was happening to me. In my thirties I began to accept me, and with the help of some amazing friends, embraced my differences. I admit that at this point in my life I developed a bit of a "chip-on-the-shoulder" mentality. I was ready for any derogatory remark that might come my way. That has softened a bit, although I am still very aware of the stares. Now in my forties, life is good. Honestly my feeling is you either like or you don't. It doesn't really matter, I know that my husband loves me and my daughter loves me and that is really all that I need:)
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