Here's my two sense. I no confidents can be challenging but I'm a firm believer in saying Fuck it. If u have to wear a wig then wear it well. I'm a dancer and sometimes I have had to damce in front of a crowd. I have to tell myself fuck Wat anyone thinks I'm going to dance my bald headed ass off and be as charming and sharp as possible. As alopecians WE ALL must remember that ppl with a full heads of hair have hang ups about there appearance as well. I have dated other dancers that are absolutely gorgeous and was very surprised to find they had more hang ups on there appearance then I.lol Ours is harder I admit but stand firm and u will feel sexy and just say fuck it if don't feel 100% fuck it!!!!!!!lol if ppl judge u on appearance then u probably don't want that person in ur life anyway. So fuck them too.lol sorry for cursing but we grown. Cheers