It takes a lot of courage to be bald. The world does not accept bald women very easily. To stand in the light of living with alopecia is a character builder. I figure I was blessed with this because I could handle it. I could'nt run from it...it was my reality. So, I have hid my alopecia, as much as I could, for the last 35 years. I am now 55 and MOST of my hair fell out...making it impossible to hide it anylonger. So, I now have joined the ranks of bald women and what a freedom this entire process has been for me. We each have to experience our own journey and I wish you much love and compassion along the way. You are beautiful just the way you are.