I've been dealing with this problem for as long as I can remember. When I was younger my bald spots were easier to hide, but as I've grown older the spot have gotten bigger. When I was 23 I married a great guy and we've been married for over 28 year. I'm still embarrassed to take my wedding of in front of him. I go into the bathroom and come out with a scarf tied on my head . He constantly tells me he loves me and hair doesn't matter, but how can he love me and I can't look at myself in a mirror.