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First time for a wig.
I have been struggling trying to cover up a bald patch on top of my head that keeps growing. It started in Jan/Feb and although there is a little bit of growth the spot itself is getting bigger. I have spent so many days crying but still trying to get on with my life. I was told stressing over the hair loss is causing it to fall out more, so I decided to take action and buy a wig. I went to a salon and spoke with a lady who specializes in wigs, and she was absolutely amazing. She helped me pick out one, and although it is synthetic, it feels real and nobody can tell it is a wig. It is called Scene Stealer by Raquel Welch and it was more expensive getting from her than it is online but I needed some support for my first wig. She cut bangs into it for me but the length is so much longer than I am use to, so I may get the length cut up some. I went out in public with it on and I felt weird, like everyone was staring and I know it was just me thinking it but this is going to take some getting use to. I want my own hair back but it's not going to happen if I am continuing to stress over it. I have to get my life back somehow, I was doing better with it but this last month I struggled to cover the spot and lost hope. I really hope the wig helps me to stop concentrating on the hair loss and focus on being me again. My 13 year old son told me I should be on the cover of covergirl with the wig on, he said it looked like natural hair lol, what a sweet talker he is.
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Permalink Reply by ataloss42 on
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I understand...I can't seem to make the leap and purchase a wig. I've been eyeing the Raquel Welch ones too...I've been wearing baseball caps for two months now after a huge bout of telegon effluvium...It's still ongoing...not sure what to do either; just don't seem to have the confidence to wear a full on wig. I've been considering a Follea topper but they're pricey and I'm wondering if I can even become brave enough to tackle that daily....Best wishes.
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Permalink Reply by carebear42 on
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I wore base ball caps as well, and I got more looks with the cap on than I do with the wig, guess it was because I never wore caps before and people wondered why I started. I actually have people telling me how nice my hair is. Also with the caps on, I found windy days they blew off, the wig stays put. It has boosted my confidence but I am still praying for my own hair to stop falling out and grow back. If u can find a salon near you that u can privately go in and try some on give it a try, once u realize that u can wear them, it becomes easier. I just had to make the appt. and go, and I took a friend with me and yes I cried but trust me those wig experts are use to seeing women cry and are very compassionate. We didn't choose this disease but we can choose how it controls our lives. Best of luck to you <3
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Thank you for your kind words...I was supposed to be cheering you, but you have helped me instead. I hope to move away from the ball caps soon..going to look at options in July...I'm 42 years old and one would think that I could meet any challenge, but this has rocked me to my core. I think, in part, because I have always had low self-esteem. This has only deepened those feelings, but I don't want to stay in the doldrums long...I have a son I'm raising with the help of my mom. I can't afford to miss a moment of his life or detract from it in any way. Best wishes to you as well and if I learn of anything along the way to help, I'll pass along. I have found a good vitamin that seems to have strengthened my fingernails. It's Nature's Bounty Hair Skin and Nails...
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I know how you feel, I am also 42 years old and have 2 boys who do not deserve to spend their time seeing me upset. I am taking Biotin (Skin, Hair, Nails), Iron, Vitamin B12, Zinc, and Vitamin D3 lol, every time I read that something may work I try it lol. Oh and I have been drinking protein shakes. By all means if u can think of anything else that may work, I'm in :) Let's count our blessings and try to accept this and be thankful that it isn't anything worse. We can do this :)
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I understand...Every time I hear of something new, I'm apt to try it as well....I think these vitamins have been the best I've tried so far..they have improved the look of my natural hair though I can't see what's going on up top...kind of just shove the cap on top of it. I never thought this would be so psychologically draining, but it is. I'll keep on keeping on and keep you posted...hope to talk again soon.
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I have noticed my nails growing faster, I hope these vitamins help.
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Thanks, I wasn't washing my own hair very much at all for fear of losing what I have left but the girl at the salon told me that by not washing it I was allowing oils to clog up the hair follicles and therefore it prevents them from growing and eventually falling out as well, so she suggested I use a sulphate (spelled wrong) free shampoo and wash it every 3rd day. I gave it a good washing last night with keratin shampoo and conditioner and so much fell out but I will wash it as much as my heart can take and put the wig on and move on I guess. I may have to have the wig cut though, she already cut bangs in but it sits just above my chest and I never had hair that long, hard to get use to the length, I like it and then I don't hmmm, to cut or not to cut.
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Permalink Reply by chris for hair on
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Your son is a doll! So many people say stupid thing like "I liked your other hair better..."
Feeling like everyone knows is almost universal, and takes quite a bit of time to get over for most people, but really most folks only care about how they look and probably don't even notice you.
I am glad you chose a wig over something like bonding, which can cause more loss. I have many clients that I can't talk into a wig and insist that they wear the hair 24 hours a day. I ask them what will happen IF they have to go in the hospital or something and can't bond. Still many refuse wigs. Hopefully someday this will change.
Good luck, I am sure you look amazing!
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Thanks, I do have an amazing teenager. My 6 year old son doesn't know what's going on and only says I look cute haha. I am so scared it's going to fall off.
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There are ways to secure the wig so that you can't lose it if you still have some hair. I ride and train horses (in a very windy town!) and my hair is secure. Message me if you want more info.
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Messaged u :)
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Permalink Reply by Dominique Cleopatra on
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Why are you so against other people's choice to bond? Some people have little to no hair to begin with so losing more isn't a problem. It can be very stressful to worry about a conventional wig falling off or to have to remove it every night. If someone has to go to the hospital they can use a backup wig or wear a scarf. I doubt that would be someone's main concern in such an instance.
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