Alopecia World
www.alopeciaworld.com
Kicked to the curb?
Have you been kicked to the curb because you don't have hair. I'ts happened to me, he says he can't deal with a woman with no hair? And sorry I haven't been on lately I'm trying to find a place to live.
Just wondering
Eileen
Just wondering
Eileen
Replies to This Discussion
-
Permalink Reply by Eileen Simpson on
-
Hugs hun, thank you so much yes your right it is a little far. The pain of it is that I can't leave right now I have to wait until the end of march when I finish my two online classes. This is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do.
Thank you so much. That employer of yours is just as bad as this guy is.
Eileen
-
-
Ok see you Sunday, take care
Eileen
-
Permalink Reply by Sol on
-
Eileen, I can completely sympathise with you. Don't know about anyone else but in my case it seems I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't. If I wait until I've gotten to know the guy and we like each other, I end up wasting my time because the moment I mention my alopecia he hightails it outa there! And if I tell people upon first meeting they suddenly "have to go". I think if I'm going to date anyone in the future it'll be a fellow alopecian.
Yes, it's completely unfair and downright cruel for people to discard us simply because we don't have hair, but at least we find out who our real friends are. And if we can't find guys who'll accept us for ourselves then we're better off without those guys! Still sucks that it has to happen at all thoigh :S
-
-
Let me say this first: you are a beautiful lady guys just don't know what their missing. It is really to bad that this happens I guess I will never understand it. This guy is "letting me stay until June" isn't that nice of him wow I know he has more issues then I do. We were getting marrried this summer, hum your right a fellow alopecian is the answer to us who better to understand us then others like us.
Hugs, keep you chin up and know that your beautiful!!!!!!
Eileen
-
-
"letting you stay until June"? Wow, how considerate! That's a guy with a heart of gold right there! ;p Cruel to be kind I'd say don't waste your time with him because it'll probably just end badly, you don't need a guy who won't accept you 100%. You're a beautiful lady too and don't need someone who has a negative impact on your life and makes you feel in any way ugly. I know this is so much easier said than done because I've been with guys in the past (prior to developing alopecia) who treated me like dirt but I was attached to them and I just couldn't let go, then I realized I was selling myself short. You are worth so much more than a guy like that! Hugs to you too :)
-
-
Thank you sweetie, yes we are worth more then that. I just don't know what I ever saw in him to begin with? I told him I had looked all over for a place to move to but couldn't find much. What I did find was out of reach for me. I lost my house last year, sold all my stuff to try to keep it, worked two jobs but still couldn't. I think that's when he realized that there wasn't going to be any money from the sale of it because I signed it over. He really is all about the money kind of guy even to the point of writting his kids off. Go figure and the hair loss just isn't ok either I guess.
Hugs
Eileen
-
-
You said it all I can't say it any better. I hate it that I'm still having to live with him under the same roof.
Hugs see you Sunday
Eileen
-
-
Honey I'm so sorry to hear about all that you've gone through. If a man won't offer to help you out or support you in a time of need, and would even write off his kids, it confirms that this guy is a despicable person who you're better off without. It's better to be alone then to stay with someone and be abused. Having a man in your life does not make you complete, especially one like that. Kick HIM to the curb (I reiterate easy said than done) because he does NOT deserve you! Feel free to PM me about this, but I can't reply until next week because I won't have access to a computer.
hugs
Sol
xoxo
-
Permalink Reply by robert whitford on
-
The first thing that comes to mind is "To Hell With Him"....if he's all about looks then don't any time dealing with such a person....
Best Wishes,
Robert
-
Permalink Reply by Cynthia Lee Watkins on
-
Yes, yes, yes, and it hurt! So I no longer date!
-
Permalink Reply by Emma Sandell on
-
i have been our relationship lasted 10 months 6 of those i was "normal" but once the hair went so did he as he said he couldnt cope with the ribbing he was getting from hs mates. this was 10 years ago now and i have been single ever since i find it hard letting anyone in incase it happens again. i know that is not a good state of mind but i can help it. i have a two year old daughter but she was the result of a very drunk night out and a split condom her dad see's and supports her but dont like me like that.
Emma
xxx
© 2024 Created by Alopecia World.
Powered by
