I realized that all my life I was trying to be perfect and I often didn't like myself.
But now with alopecia I've found out who I really am and that I want to be myself and don't care what people say.
The best thing you can ever do for yourself is admit your mistakes, admit that u are not perfect and love yourself, your body, your life, family, friends and give whole heart to everything you do to see unhappy people smiling. :)