Resentment

Hi all,

I just wanted to get some support as I have been dealing with a lot of resentments lately. I resent the peach fuzz on my face, I resent women who flaunt their gorgeous hair, I resent the fact that I have to answer questions and try to make people feel comfortable.

I assume these resentments are just part of the territory. But I would love to hear some of your tricks for adjusting your attitude!

Thanks,
Wendy
www.redefinelabelleza.blogspot.com

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Permalink Reply by Tallgirl on April 17, 2012 at 9:18am

See the group Funny Acts of Alopecia. Click on GROUPS above and join to read how others lighten up.

Permalink Reply by wendizzle on April 17, 2012 at 11:49am

Love it! Thanks.

Permalink Reply by Josh McDowell on June 8, 2012 at 8:16am

Don't worry about it, you're the most gorgeous bald chick I've ever seen!

Permalink Reply by Jane Lucinda on November 1, 2014 at 10:29am

Feelings of resentment are fleeting and normal. When I first saw how utterly adorable you are, I had an instant pang of sadness that I could never look as sweet as you, hair or not! But really, I'm just glad for you. We all work with what we have to allow us to first cope and then thrive. We all just have different things. 

Permalink Reply by AlopeciaDestroyedMyLife on November 1, 2014 at 12:24pm

I get very very jealous too.

Permalink Reply by Rose Marie' on November 2, 2014 at 4:04pm

Hello Wedizzle 

I remember when my daughter first lost her hair (she had very long, blonde curly hair).  I went to see Lord of the Rings and one of the characters had my daughters hair (well, not really but something very similar).  It did make me uncomfortable and sad....why her...why us?  But you can't stay in that place for too long.  Resentment about the reality of the situation just hurts you.  I understand how you feel but hope you find your way to a good place, where you don't feel like this any longer.

Rosy

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