Shy and emberasst... having a new partner... and just arhhhhh......HELP..

Im going through a stage that im being so like emberasst to have sex or anything intimate with my coming partner...he knows i have alopecia... but it seems im shy to do anything with him...
arhh... he and i arent planning anything now...for that time its in like 2 yrs or so...
but in normal stuff like kissing...im alright...but actual intimacy and waking up without my wig and so forth... i afraid thinking about it...:(

i dont know what to do...im like ashamed even if i know and accpet it but now cause im in love and so forth hes sooo in love with me...i mean like wow... never thought a man would be...
hes 26 and 20... he wants to marry me as well...sooo omg...

im worried i would me scared to from my hair.... or something like this..

please help me and advice...u can slap me too if i seem silly!!

Views: 359

▶ Reply to This

Replies to This Discussion

Permalink Reply by Maya :) on September 12, 2011 at 4:47pm
he and i known each other for 3 yrs now...and when i was divorcing my husband...he called me and i was in australia and came clean with me and said he loves me... he has wanted me for a long time and has been shy....omlord..
i have loved him as well but didnt seem to notice he cared for me so i left him and ignored....
Permalink Reply by Liz on September 18, 2011 at 9:00pm
I had sex with a new partner the other night, and I kept my wig on, even though I usually don't. I told him about my hair loss and it didn't seem to be that big of a deal to him, but still, I felt better keeping the wig on. If we continue to see each other, I might gradually allow him to see me occasionally without it, but even around the house I usually wear a turban if I'm not wearing a wig.
Permalink Reply by Deana on January 9, 2012 at 6:21am
How is everything going with your guy now? Are you feeling more
 comfortable yet? I have never taken either my wig or my hat off in front
 of my man since I have  had AU. He knew me before it started and I
feel more than naked without a cover on my head. I know it can't be
healthy for me to feel this way.  We aren't having the best intimate
relationship but there are other things going on, too. I can't  tell how
much my inhabition to be free is affecting our relationship but I sense if
I could just let go of  my fear I would feel so much less weight and relax better.
Permalink Reply by Randa on January 7, 2013 at 12:30am

I'm having the same problem :(

RSS

Disclaimer

Any mention of products and services on Alopecia World is for informational purposes only; it does not imply a recommendation or endorsement by Alopecia World. Nor should any statement or representation on this site be construed as professional, medical or expert advice, or as pre-screened or endorsed by Alopecia World. Alopecia World is not responsible or liable for any of the views, opinions or conduct, online or offline, of any user or member of Alopecia World.

© 2024   Created by Alopecia World.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service