help help help!! having had Alopecia for as long as i can remember, life seemed to be pretty normal for me for many years, I'd get up, feel pretty down about my day but usually get on with it regardless, only after spending numerous years in counselling and pshycotherapy have i finally realized that growing up bald has had much more of a negative effect than i'd first thought, I could go on for ever about what i've discovered about myself, if anyone feels it may be of interest to their situation. The main dilema i'm having at the moment is i feel that i have missed out on the oppertunity to interact with girls in a confident way, through the years there have been quite a few negative comments from females, which i have to say have really got me down from time to time but each time ive managed to get back on track and get on with it, but now later on in life it seems i am so anxious about talking to girls incase they comment or even think something bad about the way i look that I can't bring myself to initiate a conversation, let alone flirt, or make eye contact, it makes me feel so trapped inside, i have a beautiful girlfriend, but i also feel that being able to flirt, and interact with members of the opposite sex in an innocent way is healthy, and a great way to feel that i am as worthy as the other guys ( especially the ones with hair)as well as a sense of being attractive, the longer this goes on i can feel myself becoming more and more needy of female attention other than that of my partner, and am frightened of where this could lead it is already having a very negative effect on my relationship to the point where i feel i need to be single and prove to myself i as good as the other guys, my partner is very understanding of the situation, but it cant be good for her to know i feel like this, it feels like an impossible situation, has anyone been through this kind of situation..