Some say uni life is the most enjoyable experience of there life well for me its been the worst ...Just finished uni im a 22 year old guy and had an upsetting uni life because of this hair problem. I would get so many invites to party's and clubs but would always turn them down because of alopecia, I would see so many guys goin out with beautiful girls getting to know eachother becoming bf and gf and would think to myself that I want that but alopecia held me back, day in day out ive been wearing hats because I am just to self concious about what people may think. One time I couldn't help myself but cry even though I'm not the type to cry. My graduation is in November and yet the only thing on my mind is how I could hide my hair or if it will grow back by that time.

Ive had alopecia areata for over 2 years now it started off with one small patch on the back of my head which gradually grew I then got more patches which were smaller in size on the side of my head and top of my head which within 9 months all the patches grew back apart from one the one on the back of my head which was the first that appeared and the largest in size ...more than 2 years have gone by and it's still the same tried all sorts of creams, remedies and solutions but still no hope I'm not much of a hat person but I can't go out without wearing one and I'm tired of it I try to forget about it but can't just don't know what to do anymore it's so upsetting for me that I havnt been able to enjoy the uni life I wanted I'm now worried that I won't be able to find the right person for me, if it will effect me finding a job after uni and how it will effect my life after uni. I can't imagine how people with au/at deal with it but I hope good news comes your way and I wish you all the best of luck.