Hi, not sure how to but this Into words, but a few months back I got rid of what was left of my. BIo hair and got a really great hairpiece, the hair is fantastic the cut and color are great, looks like the way my bio hair would look if I had it all, when I'm wearing my "hair" its comfortable enough that I forget it's there,my issue with a wig, leads to the question, when my husband goes to kiss me on the too of my head, like he always did before, or even when I hug someone, I'm very aware of the wig. You can't have someone run their fingers through it, without detecting the cap, I don't know what you would do if single and beginning to date, it's surprising how often people pat others on the head. I suppose under these mild conditions no one would notice, but what do others do in more intimate conditions? I'm married so this is not my issue, but I find myself self conscious even with my husband sometimes. Are there wigs that pass the touch test? My heart goes out to the single people out there who are wearing wigs and face meeting someone, and debating if you should tell them before they find out for themselves.again, my hair looks great and I'm so thankful for it, as it's helped me really get on with my life, but the feel of the cap is something I'm not use to, does it get better?