I have been living with alopecia since 1991. Throughout the years, I have had alopecia areata and alopecia totalis. My life is not over, so there is still time for alopecia universalis. ;-) I have had many ups and down and find that I always come out on the other side standing tall.
It has always been a given for me to reach out to others with alopecia. I just did it naturally. I became involved in our local support group in Montreal, participated in the annual conferences of the National Alopecia Areata Foundation (NAAF), and also served as president of the Quebec Alopecia Areata Foundation (QAAF).
Someone once asked me what I planned to do after I moved to the USA. My initial thought was to attend or start a support group in Michigan, but I eventually settled on the wonderful idea of creating Alopecia World with my husband, rj jones, who was my fiancé at the time (2008).
On a personal note, I like to blend femininity and strength. A woman can be strong and physically capable as well as soft and feminine. For a long time, I thought I "had" to be one or the other, and I had a hard time finding my place. Blending both is very gratifying, indeed.
I also like to keep active. It does not have to be extreme. It can be a bike ride, walking, painting a room in the house, or cleaning the garage.
In April 2008, I married rj, a very special man that supports me in my alopecia and is the catalyst and the great mind behind the research and design of this site.
Please feel free to "friend" rj and me: We would love to make your acquaintance.
Thank you! I'm glad you are doing well...and I also would love to meet you. Wish they would have a convention in San Francisco, Portland or Seattle!
Wow, RJ is a gifted pianist. Does he have any CDs?
You are both very blessed to have each other...
AHA! Talent runs in the family. That's too bad he hasn't put together a CD because I would love to hear that beautiful music playing in my home! I enjoy collecting the music of people I know personally.
Tell him for me...
Anyway, thank you for doing so much good -- Alopecia World is such a blessing for so many people.
I wish you were closer so I could have you both over and maybe RJ could even play my piano!
Thank you for the birthday wishes. I pray that all is well with you and yours. I will not be at NAAF this year so we will have to plan for other ways to take that fabulous group photo. Let's make that happen. I would love to meet you in person. Many Blessings.
To my life partner, my heartfelt thanks for your birthday greeting. My life has changed only for the better ever since you sent me a friend request on MySpace a few years ago. I can't help but to teem with great expectations as I look forward to the rest of our journey. Love, rj
Thankyou for the welcome...this site has helped me so much already. I live in a small town so it' nice to know that there are other people whp have this condition and i'm not alone :) xx
Hey! Yes I did I finished my first draft for class and got admitted into the next level. So now I'm in the rewriting class and reworking my script. If you want to read the first draft let me know. I can e-mail it to you.
Thank you Cheryl for the positive feedback. This has been hard on all of us. My little girl is doing great with Alopecia. At least she knows what happens. even at 6 yo, she can tell people what she has. The one thing she forgets to tell kids or other people she sees is that it is not contagious!! We shaved her little head because she had bald spots and maybe about 10-15% hair left on her head. Her teachers have informed students about this and When she get's into the next grade, I and a one other person will be talking to her class. Thanks again.
Cheryl, has anyone brought to your attention the news story shown last night on NBC nightly news? I would like to find out more about the appearant discovery and potential cure discussed. I have a son who is suffering significant socially from this disorder and would do anything to help him.
Regards, Dave
hey, the My Black Is Beautiful is a movement by Proctor and Gambe and BET...spreading the word about what Black women this is bueatiful about themselves..also to promote the new Pantne relaxed and nature products and the Queen cover gilr collection.
Hi!! thank u!! what awesome sight! I was looking for info on permanent eyebrow tattooing when I ran across it..... im glad to have found it tho.......... thanks, shan
Thank you for your warm welcome,
Just by looking at the site, you can see the people are kind and wonderful... I hope to share my experiences with everyone!
greetings from France, Shanila
Hi Cheryl,
Thank you for welcoming me...a year ago! I haven't really been back since then. Guess most of the time I live in complete denial. I just don't want Alopecia to be the world I live in...yet it is. After 20 yrs, you'd think I would accept this fate and I haven't. I'm still angry about it, I still cry like a baby..like now. Just talking about it makes me cry. I'm also angry that I just can't seem to accept it like a lot of people here.
I literally feel like my hair defines who I am and I don't know how to get out of that.
My hair is at it's worst since I was able to go wig free 15 yrs ago. I had a good 15 yrs and now I'm literally on this site trying to find out where and how to go about getting a wig. So much information and choices with such a delicate decision. Ugh!
:) maybe oneday we can have a conversation in french?
Being british myself I have lived in france for 7 years i speak reasonably well though the language challenges me all the time! lolol
do you know of any grants for hair pieces for women with alopecia
i was recently up at a hair show in new york and one of the other hair replacement people said that their were 500 hundred dollar grants out their have you heard this
Thanks for the invite for national bald-out. I no longer live in Michigan, but you can bet Id be involved if I could be there. I love all you do for the site, and helping people make it ok to have this disease. God Bless!
Thank you! Unfortunately I won't be able to meet on the 17th (I'll be in Canada visiting family). But I will keep checking the Michigan group's page to see when there are other meetings. Hope you are enjoying the summer.
Thank you Cheryl, I look forwad to meeting you at the conferernce & hopefully at our July 17th get-together. It's always great to meet/know others in the area. See you soon!
Babe, you are not "bald and beautiful," but beautiful and bald. In other words, you are not beautiful despite being bald, but a beautiful woman who only happens to be bald. You make the look -- the look does not make you. Love, #1 Husband, rj :-)
I co-sign with rj Sis. By the way, His Purple Badness aka Prince was seated next to a beautiful and bald woman last night on the BET Awards. Just wondering if you saw it. I was floored... Now that's called Royal Awareness. Much love to you and rj--enjoy the summer.
~G
LeslieAnn Butler
Wow, RJ is a gifted pianist. Does he have any CDs?
You are both very blessed to have each other...
Mar 30, 2010
LeslieAnn Butler
Tell him for me...
Anyway, thank you for doing so much good -- Alopecia World is such a blessing for so many people.
I wish you were closer so I could have you both over and maybe RJ could even play my piano!
Mar 30, 2010
Sandra Dubose-Gibson
Apr 1, 2010
rj, Co-founder
Apr 2, 2010
Jasmine Quintero
Apr 4, 2010
Jasmine Quintero
Apr 6, 2010
Keeley Tomlinson
Apr 6, 2010
Kelci
Apr 6, 2010
sahin yasin
Apr 6, 2010
sean franklin
Apr 6, 2010
JeffreySF
I miss you too.
But I'll see you in 77 days!
Jeff
Apr 7, 2010
tahnie elizabeth grant
Apr 8, 2010
Mark
Thank you, co-founder Cheryl!
:)
Mark
Apr 8, 2010
Stacey Bowman
Apr 8, 2010
Mayte
Apr 8, 2010
Alexandra
Im very excited that there is a site like this!
Apr 9, 2010
Jessi
Thanks for the warm welcome... sorry it took me so long to reply!
Apr 12, 2010
sean franklin
Apr 13, 2010
Caroline Prideaux
thanks for the welcome.
Is nice to know there's somewhere to go and talk to people in the same situation as me.
love the site
Apr 13, 2010
Shannon **Jose's Mommy**
Apr 14, 2010
Rhonda Pillard
Apr 14, 2010
Robynn Jonsen
Apr 14, 2010
David Freeburn
Regards, Dave
Apr 15, 2010
Christy Cyphers
Apr 15, 2010
David Freeburn
Apr 15, 2010
Rhonda Pillard
Apr 19, 2010
Shannen Richards
Apr 21, 2010
Roma
Thank you for your warm welcome,
Just by looking at the site, you can see the people are kind and wonderful... I hope to share my experiences with everyone!
greetings from France, Shanila
Apr 21, 2010
Roma
Apr 22, 2010
Lynn
Thank you for welcoming me...a year ago! I haven't really been back since then. Guess most of the time I live in complete denial. I just don't want Alopecia to be the world I live in...yet it is. After 20 yrs, you'd think I would accept this fate and I haven't. I'm still angry about it, I still cry like a baby..like now. Just talking about it makes me cry. I'm also angry that I just can't seem to accept it like a lot of people here.
I literally feel like my hair defines who I am and I don't know how to get out of that.
My hair is at it's worst since I was able to go wig free 15 yrs ago. I had a good 15 yrs and now I'm literally on this site trying to find out where and how to go about getting a wig. So much information and choices with such a delicate decision. Ugh!
Apr 22, 2010
Roma
Being british myself I have lived in france for 7 years i speak reasonably well though the language challenges me all the time! lolol
bonne weekend
Apr 23, 2010
Jordyn Charthern
Apr 26, 2010
Lynn
Apr 27, 2010
Danielle Royce
i was recently up at a hair show in new york and one of the other hair replacement people said that their were 500 hundred dollar grants out their have you heard this
May 11, 2010
Percy Mills
May 14, 2010
Dave
Jun 1, 2010
JeffreySF
Cant wait to see you both again!
Hugz,
Jeff
Jun 2, 2010
Stephie Dee
Jun 3, 2010
LeslieAnn Butler
LeslieAnn
Jun 7, 2010
Emily
Jun 14, 2010
Emily
Jun 14, 2010
Emily
Jun 18, 2010
Kevin Woolen
Jun 19, 2010
Robbi
Jun 19, 2010
Brittany
Can't wait to see you and rj in 3 days! :)
xoxo
Brittany <3
Jun 20, 2010
JeffreySF
I cant wait to see you and Rj in...48 hours!!!
Hugz!
Jeffrey
Jun 23, 2010
JeffreySF
Cya tomorrow night!
Hugz,
Jeffrey
Jun 24, 2010
Anne Williams
Anne
Jun 26, 2010
rj, Co-founder
Jun 28, 2010
Galena
~G
Jun 28, 2010