hey Im Lee! I had AU since Oct '07, don't like it but I am dealing! I tried everything...nothing is working...so I gave up and I'm doing things that make me happy ; ) I love talking to people about this because it makes me feel like I'm not alone. I live in NYC and I LOVE music..its my life! I'm in a band (website: http://www.myspace.com/betterthanstatic) where I sing and play guitar. I guess thats me in a nutshell ; )
Update...moved to Arlingon, VA...not in a band anymore ; ( and I have asthma now...so, trying to deal with that the best I can. Would take alopecia over asthma ANY DAY!
So Jackie..did you walk without the wig?
Bet you didn't look like two cantaloupes.
Bet ya "NOT"
Bet you will feel the air on your head and thank yourself for coming out!
"YiPPeeeeeeeeeee"
oh Lee...just talking to Jackie on your page....so you down with all the fun..of going without the wig..if not for a day on bald out day!yey!I have tried it all every rememdy you can come up with..forget it..it doesn't change a thing.
Just love yourself and the rest will find a way.
I wore a bandana to bed for 6 years, when I got married many many years ago....and it was no fun.
The day came when in 1982..that makes me part of the archives!
When I took the bandana off and faced my true self and the World.
I know this alopcia thing can be tough but together we can make it a whole lot better.
My Partner Leo is also a musician. More of a recording artist but is in 3 bands too. The last songs are on my page are Leo's. Check it out.
Hugz,
Hi! I saw a comment you made on a post inviting people to look at the inside of your vacuum wig. I heard that they are heavy and really hot. I wanted to know your take since you live in NYC and I'm in Long Island. Thanks.
Hi Lee, Please don't give up, I understand the fight though.
With Medicare appeals you can have an attorney but I am doing this on my own. I was a paralegal for County of Riverside, my expertise are criminal law. But I am giving it a huge go & presenting on my own doing lots of homework. Hang in there. There is a wig place here in southern ca, World of Wigs in Tustin, they make wigs there & they have a program where you can sign up & people can donate to your wig, its really cool.
I will let you know what happens.
Lee, you are between & rock & hard spot. Your problem is this, yes you have insurance, they cover only $500.00 of your wig/cranial prosthesis. It is at this point all insurance companies will come back with the standard reply, it is your responsibility to know what is covered & is not. They can be really cold about it to. I have found out the hard way the importance of doing your home work.
Your lucky at least your insurance covers wigs. Sadly systems out there are really expensive. The ones I have looked into, my husband & I can't afford at this time.
We have started saving & I'm hoping within a year or so I can look into a really good system.
You hang in there, check to see if there are programs you qualify for, something that might pick up the balance after insurance pays .
Pam
Hi Lee,
I don't know when you sent this friend request because I haven't been on for a while. but I will be coming back here more frequently!! Where are you from, how long have you had Alopecia?
Hi Lee,
I like Crystal City. Lots of great restaurants and shopping. It's convenient to the Metro so you can get anywhere from there. It's clean and safe and has lots of park like settings and jogging paths to enjoy. It's also convenient to places like Pentagon City and Roslyn which also are also full of shops and restaurants. Definitely worth checking out!
Jeff
Lee, That's great! I think you're going to love the area. I think you'll find that you've got convenient access to so many things there and there are tons of beautiful spots in the area. Enjoy!
hi i liked your pics and profile you are such a pretty girl. i am really struggling i am not bald and some say i'm crazy.. but i have female pattern or so dr says and you would think i was bald.. i cant help but be upset about it.. i just feel i look so bad and it just lays wierd.. and i cant do anything about it.. it scares me so.. i wish i could be as strong as some of you on here.... i just dont know what to do.....do you know anything about FPB its going on 5 yrs, if it were going to get worse i guess it would have already... it just terrifies me... what did you do to get over it.
i have seen a therapist all last year and lost my job, no insurance so i had to stop.. anyway i felt we talked about the same things and at some point you have to take what they say and do it. i'm not at the point where i need anything it just lays so wierd, hard to explain. my girls are giving me a hard time now about wanting things i cant afford with only a parttime job.. and thats adding to my stress level. i just feel at times i am nothing... only a resource for money for my children that i dont have and they dont understand.. and ugly to boot too....
Hello Lee, thanks for adding me as a friend. so your in a band that awesome im going to check out your myspace page rite after this. im just starting to learn guitar. its damn hard but im stickin with it. I see your a Steelers fan. Dont feel bad when my Vikings beat them next week, lol. Talk to you later and thanks again.
Hi Lee, thank you for the offer, I very well may take you up on it. She does a beautiful job on your hair.
Thanks again and I hope you have a wonderful day
Ella
hi Lee, haven't been around here for ages! Hope your all good....loving my freedom hair, waiting for the second one to be delivered. You've got eyebrows, so exciting!! I'm waiting very patiently....
Hi Lee and thanks for the introduction! I am loooooving DC! This place is definitely going to be my home for many years to come. How do you like it so far? Also, I see that you have a vacuum wig - it looks fabulous! I love my Freedom wig - soooo comfortable! Take care and talk to you later.
I know I looooove my Freedom wig!! I got mine in mid-October. I think the next one I get will be blonde!! I love that us alopecians can change our hair color on a whim like that ;) I wish they made them longer, too. My natural hair was always really long and curly; although I don't miss the curls, I definitely miss the length. Hope you have a happy holiday season!
Haha I agree! I don't mind the snow, but nothing is getting plowed or shoveled! And the Metro is pretty much useless at this point :( I had a snow day yesterday, and it looks like I'm going to get another one tomorrow! Woohoo!!
Hiya girly! Thanks for the strong words and advice! I know I should fight it and I will try, but then again like you said maybe I'll go on to do something bigger and better! Hope all is well!
Hey girl! It's sooo nice to hear from you again! It has been a while. I'm doing good. Tomorrow's my 33rd B-day. Woohoo! I'm in school now--for nursing. I love it. It keeps me so busy though. I just started back at WW again too. I haven't been for a year.(shame on me!) It's so hard getting back into it. I haven't been doing as well as I did the first time I joined. I need to just do it! I like your new pics! Did you get a new Freedom? It looks longer. Or is it the angle of the pic? Anyways, your hair looks soooo nice!!!!And VERY natural too!
I've been wearing my vacuum wig for a little over a year now. I love it! I ordered a second one recently, but had to send it back because of a couple of defects. From what I was told, they're easy fixes. I can't wait till it comes back! It's so beautiful, and LONGER than my original one.
You look good!!!!
How exciting that you get to live in a new place! What an experience it must be! I'm glad you are happy :) and with you BF too! woohoo!
Yea, I have been doing TERRIBLE at WW so far. I go on Fri.'s. Last time I ended up losing 40lbs, then I gained about half back. I have yet to lose a pound since I started a month ago. Why is it so hard to get back in??!! I did so well last time!
Well, good luck at tomorrow's meeting. KIT
Yea, but I would rather be a little more broke than fat! lol! Have you done it online before? I've never tried it. Anyways, I love my WW leader. She's pretty awesome, and gives great advice. I've been good so far this week. Wish me luck for Friday!
It's good to hear that you are enjoying your new city :)
Hi Lee! I am Donna! How are you? I am looking into getting a freedom wig. Do you really like them? Any info you could provide would be great! thanks! Hope to chat soon!
Thanks Lee! I had hidden spots when I was 12 that all grew in by 16 with shots. Then almost 10 years later I am dealing with my second round since having full thick hair and this time it was more aggressive and led to wearing a wig.
I agree that it is getting easier, especially with the help of support groups and this site. Thanks so much for your support! Have a great day!
Hi Lee and welcom. I have worn and sell vacum wigs for nearly 20 years. I can help you with a beautiful wig if you find one you like on hairconnectiontoday.com and call me at 586 465 1458, Dr. Bernice Williams.
Hi, Lee, it's nice to meet you & thanks for the friend invite! I really like your hair W/ the highlights in the front--very cool. I wear vaccuum wigs too. Have a good day, hope we can talk soon :)
Hi, Lee, I wear Freedom wigs, how bout you? I know what you mean about wanting a longer length--it's funny how a couple extra inches can make the price go up so easily.
Hey Lee! I'm going to be moving to DC approx. end of aug or early sept. Have been looking at apartments in Arlington, cant believe the price of rent. I was hoping we could get together while i'm there. We can look for new hair!!! My brother and i are heavy in the music scene and we want to hit as many shows as we can...hear dc gets great performers! My brother is a drummer and would like to make contacts, he hopes to get involved in a band as well. I hope ur doin ok with ur new diagnoses of asthma. I pray it doesn't keep u from singing.
MiNAH
Bet you didn't look like two cantaloupes.
Bet ya "NOT"
Bet you will feel the air on your head and thank yourself for coming out!
"YiPPeeeeeeeeeee"
Jun 26, 2009
MiNAH
Just love yourself and the rest will find a way.
I wore a bandana to bed for 6 years, when I got married many many years ago....and it was no fun.
The day came when in 1982..that makes me part of the archives!
When I took the bandana off and faced my true self and the World.
Jun 26, 2009
lynne
hope ur well, speak sn xx
Jul 6, 2009
JeffreySF
How is everything going with you?
All is good here with me.
Jeff
Jul 14, 2009
JeffreySF
All is good here.
I know this alopcia thing can be tough but together we can make it a whole lot better.
My Partner Leo is also a musician. More of a recording artist but is in 3 bands too. The last songs are on my page are Leo's. Check it out.
Hugz,
Jeffrey
Jul 18, 2009
JeffreySF
I'd love to hear your song!!!
Jeffrey
Jul 19, 2009
Natasha
Natasha
Jul 23, 2009
Jeff W
Thanks for the friend add. Keep on rockin' girl!
Jeff
Jul 29, 2009
Pamela Rosse
With Medicare appeals you can have an attorney but I am doing this on my own. I was a paralegal for County of Riverside, my expertise are criminal law. But I am giving it a huge go & presenting on my own doing lots of homework. Hang in there. There is a wig place here in southern ca, World of Wigs in Tustin, they make wigs there & they have a program where you can sign up & people can donate to your wig, its really cool.
I will let you know what happens.
Pam
Aug 3, 2009
Pamela Rosse
Your lucky at least your insurance covers wigs. Sadly systems out there are really expensive. The ones I have looked into, my husband & I can't afford at this time.
We have started saving & I'm hoping within a year or so I can look into a really good system.
You hang in there, check to see if there are programs you qualify for, something that might pick up the balance after insurance pays .
Pam
Aug 3, 2009
Karena
I don't know when you sent this friend request because I haven't been on for a while. but I will be coming back here more frequently!! Where are you from, how long have you had Alopecia?
Aug 6, 2009
Jeff W
I like Crystal City. Lots of great restaurants and shopping. It's convenient to the Metro so you can get anywhere from there. It's clean and safe and has lots of park like settings and jogging paths to enjoy. It's also convenient to places like Pentagon City and Roslyn which also are also full of shops and restaurants. Definitely worth checking out!
Jeff
Aug 13, 2009
Jeff W
Jeff
Aug 17, 2009
alyssa
yeah i would love to find out who the wig supplier is, and where in manhatten he is... thank
Aug 28, 2009
alyssa
Sep 14, 2009
julie
Sep 17, 2009
julie
Sep 18, 2009
Jeff W
Jeff
Sep 29, 2009
Violet Louise
Oct 7, 2009
Nick Janda
Nick
Oct 18, 2009
Nick Janda
Oct 18, 2009
Galvin
Oct 28, 2009
Ella
Thanks again and I hope you have a wonderful day
Ella
Nov 18, 2009
Anna
Nov 20, 2009
charlene lewis
Dec 6, 2009
Natalie
Natalie
Dec 7, 2009
Stephanie
Dec 9, 2009
Tom Patterson
Dec 12, 2009
charlene lewis
Dec 12, 2009
Natalie
Dec 22, 2009
Kathleen Hertzig
Kathleen
Feb 5, 2010
Natalie
Feb 9, 2010
Kathleen Hertzig
I guess I was wondering how you are coping and do you feel comfortable these days.
Kathleen
Feb 10, 2010
suzie
Feb 10, 2010
sgomez
Feb 18, 2010
sharon
Talk 2 u soon!
Keep rockin!
Sharon
Feb 18, 2010
sgomez
You look good!!!!
Feb 20, 2010
sgomez
Yea, I have been doing TERRIBLE at WW so far. I go on Fri.'s. Last time I ended up losing 40lbs, then I gained about half back. I have yet to lose a pound since I started a month ago. Why is it so hard to get back in??!! I did so well last time!
Well, good luck at tomorrow's meeting. KIT
Feb 22, 2010
sgomez
It's good to hear that you are enjoying your new city :)
Feb 25, 2010
Donna DeHoog
Feb 26, 2010
Danica Augustin
Mar 17, 2010
Debbi Fuller
Mar 17, 2010
Jocelyn
I agree that it is getting easier, especially with the help of support groups and this site. Thanks so much for your support! Have a great day!
Apr 19, 2010
Fox
Apr 27, 2010
Bernice Jones Williams
May 5, 2010
Robbi
Jun 8, 2010
Robbi
Jun 15, 2010
Krissie
Jul 6, 2010
Devin
Jul 10, 2010
Sam
Aug 12, 2010