Hi, I am a 52 year-old single mom. AA for 3 years on and off and then AU for over 7 years after a terribly traumatic year ending with a 3-month illness.
I am struggling to find where my feminine side has been hiding since I lost my hair. This society has drummed into people's minds that physical beauty reigns supreme. That without that - you are nothing. What a terrible message to send to our children!
To go out into the dating world again, at this age and in the "condition" (my word) that I am in is frightening to me. The thought of being rejected or being hurt or insulted for something that I have no control over is just horrible. Does anyone else share that struggle?
Are you age 18 or older?
Yes
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I would never treat you in the ways you fear. As a Southern gentleman, I treat all women like ladies - the way they should be. I know I'm not the only gentleman out there.
I've dated a woman with alopecia before; that no romance came off had NOTHING to do with her being bald. We just had no common interests, and we still keep in touch.
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Hi Angel! I so agree withyour comment about trying to find our feminine side once again! I can honestly share your feelings about dating with this condition for I was an older single mom for over 15 years.
Thanks goodness this website has come along!
You can feel feminine even with hair loss - just focus on your best assets; update your makeup or try some new accessories; treat yourself to a professional manicure & pedicure; try out some new headgear.
Hi Angell,
Glad to hear that someone else here is from NJ. I'm in Norther NJ. Where are you? I've had alopecia for 36 years. It sucks but I live with it. Hopefully we'll get a chance to talk sometime.
Barbara
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I'm sorry about your fears concerning dating.
I would never treat you in the ways you fear. As a Southern gentleman, I treat all women like ladies - the way they should be. I know I'm not the only gentleman out there.
I've dated a woman with alopecia before; that no romance came off had NOTHING to do with her being bald. We just had no common interests, and we still keep in touch.
God bless,
Larry
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Glad to hear that someone else here is from NJ. I'm in Norther NJ. Where are you? I've had alopecia for 36 years. It sucks but I live with it. Hopefully we'll get a chance to talk sometime.
Barbara
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