Question for all to answer yay or nay and please answer honestly with all answers and comments...is it a good idea to shave my head to help my teen daughter with her transition with losing all her hair..should I be bald right beside her?

Hi my name is Krystal and my soon to be 14yr.old daughter has A.A.she's losing her hair at a faster rate than we anticipated. I don't think the full aspect of what's to come has hit her yet and I want to shelter her from it but I know that I can't as much as I want to.when does the feeling of utter uselessness and not in control go away or at least fades and gets Better? Please help an emotionally behind closed doors mom.any and all advice welcome.