Listen, just take it one day at a time, it took me awhile to get out there "naked". I have 2 girls and my husband and I decided that I will come out bald, when the girls are ready to deal with it, they were both in high school, and middle school and it was difficult for them with people ignorant comment. Since they are both in college now, they are both more educated on the Alopecia subject, they are able to tell people about it, so we decided that I can put my picture on Face-book and all the rest. Some people knew I had Alopecia, but some people were surprise to know I was wearing a wig. So, take your time, we're here to support you whenever you're ready. You've get comfortable with it, before you can do it.

I'm sorry you're having a hard time -- I understand completely. And yes, you will "get there." Thanks for asking about my book! There's a lot of helpful information in it, and it's a good read, too. You can order "If Your Hair Falls Out, Keep Dancing!" on www.Amazon.com and they will ship it to you. Let me know how you like it!
Hugs!