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I have started the process of looking for work. I have not had to interview since I lost my hair. I'm completely bald and wear nothing on my head to cover it. I would like to get advice from all the great people on here as how I should deal with the elephant in the room during an interview. Any help or advice would be great.
Jeannie
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Be yourself.
I would suggest getting a wig, it would probably help you feeling more confident on your job interview. for me i don't feel confident without my wig it it's a must have for me. you can google search to find plenty of wigs online are locally it up to you, i my self buy from this store which is silkawigs the price is resenable, you can look them up and let me know
Your skills should be the focus here, not your hair.
P.S. Unless you can wear your skin with conviction, boldness and image carried off like a total fashion package this will also work.
I wish it were not like this, but there many people afraid ... dare I say terrified of 'different'. Many of them work in HR and are hiring managers. They may feel that you are contagious or are going to be absent from work off the bat. I would wear a wig, get passed my probation and then decide how you would like to address. At the end of the day you need money to live. If you know for sure they are a conscious employer then go as you are.
Jeannie
I enjoyed reading Keren Barack"s article on the Bald girls do lunch blog. This woman is beautiful,and has a great sense of humor.
Apparently, during an interview, she told the interviewer. "I have an autoimmune condition that caused me to loose my hair,but my head is fine."
The interviewer responded, "i don't care". Keren got the job and worked there for many years. Today they are still good friends.
Solange, thank you for sharing your perspectives.All discussions about any topic can veer off to ideas related to the said topic.For example, a discussion about motherhood and its joys can veer off to the topic of Stay at home moms and Working moms.And yes, that's a topic that can get heated.
There are some amazing women with alopecia in the media that have inspired me. To name a few:
Alopecia World"s Co Founder Cheryl.
Sheila Bridges
Keren Barak
Abby Asistio
Rachel Fleit
Meghan Sanders
Brittany Myers
Helen Phillips
Judith Jamison
Deedee Bridgewater
Gail Porter
Kayla Martell
Melanie Gaydos
The list goes on. Forgive me for not naming the many others
I've always told them the truth. On some job applications, they ask you what your limitations are and other similar things. I think nothing of telling them I have alopecia. I tell my co-workers the truth if they start asking questions. This decreases the embarrassment in case I get my hair piece or scarf pulled off which did happen a few times.
This also frees them up to tell me if I need to re-do my make up or if my hair piece is crooked.
I use my hair piece to avoid being treated like an oddity and a curiosity. One time, I sat in a staff meeting and told everyone I didn't have hair. I told them if my make up or my wig is not on right, you can tell me and I won't take offense. I told them, I don't want a lot of whispering and back biting.
As far as head covers, I've found some that are really comfortable. They will protect you from the sun in summer and keep you warm in winter and protect your privacy and dignity at work.
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