ANOTHER NIGHTMARE DATE WITH THE RECRUITMENT CONSULTANT........

WELL I HAVE ANOTHER ONE TO TELL........

ON THURSDAY 25/06/2009 I WENT ON A DATE WITH A GUY CALLED JAMES FROM SUTTON COLDFIELD FOR THE SECOND TIME, HAVING ALREADY BEEN ON ONE DATE WITH HIM.

ON THE FIRST DATE JAMES WAS ALL OVER ME LIKE A RASH SAYING HOW GOODLOOKING I WAS AND THAT HE COULDNT UNDERSTAND WHY I WAS SINGLE HE ALSO TOLD ME HE LOVED MY LONG BROWN HAIR !!!! ( YEP MY NHS WIG), AFTER LEAVING ME HE THEN TEXTED AND RANG CONTINUOUSLY TILL WE MET UP AGAIN ON THURSDAY....

ON THE THURSDAY EVENING I DECIDED TO TELL JAMES ABOUT MY HAIRLOSS AS I THOUGHT IT WAS BEST TO GET IT OUT IN THE OPEN.

I SAID TO JAMES "I NEED TO LET YOU KNOW ABOUT A CONDITION I HAVE " JAMES REPLIED OK THEN TELL ME"
"I SAID I HAVE A CONDITION CALLED ALOPECIA, ITS HAIRLOSS ITS LIKE GAIL PORTERS THE TV PRESENTER"

JAMES REPLIED "YOU TELLING ME YOU HAVE NO HAIR", I REPLIED "YES" JAMES THEN SAID " OH" AND WENT REALLY QUIET I SHOWED JAMES MY PAGE ON ALOPECIA WORLD ON HIS MOBILE PHONE AND HE WAS HORRIFIED AT THE PICTURES OF ME WITH NO HAIR,HIS FACE SAID IT ALL. AFTER ABOUT TEN MINUTES OF REALLY AWKWARD SILENCES, JAMES SAID "IM GOING "AND STARTED TO GET UP AND GO.

I THEN SAID TO JAMES "MY HAIRLOSS IS OBVIOUSLY A ISSUE SO DONT BOTHER GETTING IN TOUCH AGAIN IF YOUR THAT SHALLOW." AND I WALKED OFF OVER TO MY FRIENDS, JAMES JUST LOOKED AT ME AND WALKED AWAY..................

ANOTHER BLOWOUT FOR ME AGAIN HEY HO.....

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Comment by Martin on July 4, 2009 at 10:44am
Mate i know this one really p'd you off, fact is a guy that shallow doesnt deserve the time and effort from someone as decent as you, dont let it drag you down bud hes an idiot. You're a fantastic person and as much as you say im biased because im your best mate.....the bloke that gets to win your heart will count his lucky stars to have someone as great as you. chin up bud x
Comment by Alexandra on July 4, 2009 at 11:03am
Anybody who would look at you at get disappointed is clearly an idiot. I don't mean to call this guy names, but I just looked at your pictures and I think you're gorgeous with or without hair! Who needs a man who doesn't think you're beautiful both ways? I can only imagine how it must hurt to be let down because of alopecia, but trust me when I say there are men who won't care! I have guy friends who told me they'd date me in a heartbeat even if I was completely bald (which I plan to be very soon). Try not to take this one to heart too much. Keep your chin up and hope for better things in the future.
Best of luck,
Alexandra
Comment by Tallgirl on July 4, 2009 at 4:20pm
Claire, why don't you just meet up with Martin and Demm from this site? Even as pals, for a good evening together or a lunch? They both seem to like you!!!
Comment by Marie on July 5, 2009 at 3:15am
There are shallow men just like there are shallow women. But, I can tell you from experience that many great guys have asked me out after finding out I wear a wig. Although your experiences may lead you to think otherwise, the simple truth is that the great majority of men don't care. Keep in mind that having Alopecia did not make this guy a classless jerk; he was like that before he met you. The fact he was all over you from the get go speaks volumes about his motives. I'm quiet sure your Alopecia was only one of the many things he would have dealt with like an idiot. Although it's crushing to have such a sensitive condition be the reason a guy walks, your Alopecia is hardly the problem; the problem is that the guy is an ass!
Comment by claire on July 6, 2009 at 3:20pm
thankyou for your great support to really does help......

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