Have been a member of a dating site for a while now.Since I have put a picture on with my grade 4 hair a man on there has insulted me saidy hair vile and why am i in to self harm. I feel so sad doctor said i have to accept my hair prob wont get better as have suffered since 2007. Im single who will want me.

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Comment by Lexi on August 3, 2013 at 9:33pm

Who will want you? The right man will. He will want and love you for the person that you are inside. You look very pretty in the longer wig in your photos. I didn't really understand what you have posted, with grade 4? Do not understand this. I guess you are saying someone on the dating site insulted you. Just get over this person's insult and move on with your life. You don't know this person, you will never meet this person, nor would you want to do either. There are cruel people in the world. Karma's a bitch.

Comment by António Gomes on August 4, 2013 at 5:49am

Yes, the right man will. I have alopecia since i can remember...i met my wife 11 years ago and she doesen't mind at all abour my hair loss. The right girl for me :)

Comment by serge on August 4, 2013 at 9:31am

Dear Karin, do not worry so much. In the world there are many men. And some of these men in the opposite like women with very short haircuts. You are very beautiful and short hair very suits you!

Comment by Lester on August 4, 2013 at 6:22pm

And here I am in the United States thinking your beautiful bald. I personally love the bald look on a woman. Strange how this works... lol

Comment by Mary122184 on August 4, 2013 at 9:39pm

Being bald does not matter to most men. I am in college and I wear wigs. So many guys that I have met through my sorority asked why I don't grow my own hair, and I just tell them that I have alopecia and it doesn't bother me. Now I have perfect hair all the time and I can style it the night before a function. Guys find confidence sexy. They don't care about hair. If it is real or fake, they dont care. I met my boyfriend 7 months ago and he has never cared that my hair is fake. Neither have any of my male friends. This man who insulted you is ignorant and you do not want to be surrounded by those people anyway. If you wake up everyday and tell youself that you are perfect and beautiful then you become it. Just as you are sad now, if you start looking at all the positives of alopecia like having perfect hair, and perfect eyebrows with make up then you will be happy. Hang in there missy! I lost my hair at 18 and it has been two years and I am happy the way I am because it makes me me

Comment by Kim on August 12, 2013 at 7:40am

That comment must have been hellava hurtful. It makes me so angry to think how cruel the human race can be. Its exactly the same as when kids get bullied and they carry it with them throughout their life. Dont let one comment rule your world. Focus on the positive. You will find the love of a man who deserves you and all your flaws. Start with loving yourself and love will find its way to you.

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