Hi All,
Well today was a spectacular day.After writing my story (I found my Inner peace) ,I felt so good that I went shopping.Guess what I bought??I bought hair accessories.Yes , I bought cute butterfly clips and those bling butterflys you can screw into your hair.Yup bling bling , all over me.Oh and I also bought some pretty bow clips and other miscellaneous stuff.Okay now you all must be wondering why Im glad about it.
When ever I passed those shops or see people wear them I used to feel very very sad,coz I just love them so much ,but I do not have the hair for them.Well today everything changed , I bought them and I wore them.Yes , my scalp did show and yes , people did notice.But I dint care.Why should I?? God gave me that defect , I dint chose it . And I definitely dint do some thing bad to have gotten it.So why should I be ashamed or embarrassed???
People notice and bite ears about it and whisper and point to me..Let them.They wont intimidate me anymore .I have every right to be happy ,to buy and wear things and do every other thing they do.I wont let all the pointing in the world stop me from living my life to the fullest.To hell with all those unempathetic people.If they cant understand and be supportive then how can their views or opinions matter??
And today my dear friends as I wore my bling butterfiles and bows all over my hair and walked through the mall,I felt wonderful.I finally could do something I ve been yearning to do for 11yrs now.The 16yr girl inside me jumped with joy,her joy knew no bounds.So friends if you lost all your hair,go buy the prettiest wig,its awkward,artificial, people notice you and turn back to look at you...never mind...let them..you live your dream,dont let a bunch of people you will probably never see again in your life ever again , ruin what you can have and do today.Just remember you never asked for it,It was just dished out to you and you will not let that dampen your free spirit.
I was so psyched with my purchase today that I wore then all the instant I bought them and as soon as I came home made my hubby click pics.Il upload my bling hair pics asap.So do and be what you want to,dont let ANYTHING stop you !!

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Comment by Jasmine on April 14, 2011 at 3:18pm
I used to feel the same way.I always wanted to buy these little pretty things,but would thing its just a waste of money coz I cannot wear them.But now I feel differently.I wore so many of them today that it weighed me down and gave me a headache.lol.
Where I come from people dont even know the spelling of alopecia.I m more comfortable in big cities coz no one really cares about the others.So less stares.Ofcors now it makes no difference to me anymore.But homes always home...Home sweet home...And yes, "Everybody knows your name!!"

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