First of all I am a black woman, which makes wig buying a little less uncomfortable than my sisters of other descent, and I found a really cool wig that can be curled and comes pre bumped. I got a short length because my sister suggested it but decided to order a longer length because that is what I am more comfortable with. It is the Sensationnel Bump Human hair wig. My hair (or lack of it LOL) does bother me sometimes and I really hate wearing a wig but at least with a wig I can style I feel like it is more of my own. I am 38 now and I even considered wearing bandanas and hats but I don't know if I would be comfortable with that. I realize that most of my co workers assume I wear a wig and I will confess that I do if asked. I hate when I talk to someone and I can tell that they are staring at my head trying to determine whether or not I am wearing a wig - this is the thing that makes me want to be like "FORGET YOU" and just wear bandanas. As a female suffering "male pattern baldness" I feel so weird. If I had cancer or total alopecia I think people would be more accepting and would understand. It is difficult for people to understand my problem when I have extremely thick eyebrows (and I even unfortunately have to occasionally wax my upper lip). I take this issue I have and try to put it in perspective though...I am blessed with the ability to walk, talk, see, hear, and otherwise fairly healthy and I have had a beautiful little girl who is the light of my life. If my main cross to bear is that I am pretty much bald on top I should take it in stride. Now if I could just find the perfect man in my life who accepts me as I am, life would be darn good LOL.