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Comment by Grace on December 7, 2010 at 10:14pm

LOL Susan I am new to incorporating wigs to bed!! lol Keep on wondering how to trans gender do? I guess their partners already know they are wearing one.
And Mike, I have no idea how to give a hair job!jajaja Ohh wait Maybe because I do not have any!! LOL

Comment by susan williams on December 7, 2010 at 9:50pm

most men accept, false boobs, false nails, false eyelashes and false teeth so what the hell!!!

and this is coming from a newly diagnosed alopecian and damn well terrified, at least my humour is coming back lol

Comment by Mike Staffieri RHN on December 7, 2010 at 9:43pm

just don't give him a hair job

Comment by Grace on December 7, 2010 at 9:18pm

Hi Guys! I have to say You have made me Breathe again.
To be honest I am not trying to proove anything, I just want to be ME again, and having a sexual incounter once in a while with a sex buddy is one of the things I saif bye bye since this happened.
So I have no clue how to handdle the wig thing. and It is not that I have an issue telling him, its just that I don't feel the need. He has not even noticed! and I am not planning to have a sentimental relationship with him... so I do not want to waste any emotions on this. Just have a good time, that all!
This is regular monofilament wig with a front Lace. It is meant to be used without glue or with glue in the front, and I wear it lwithout glue everyday. I have used Full lace wigs before but I quited cause they were tooo much hassle and too messy.
BUT I still have the blue, the adhesives and aaaallll the products. This will will be secured only from the top lace front... so Crossing my fingers it will Hold on to me!

Comment by Tallgirl on December 7, 2010 at 8:30pm

If the wig is felt, just say you are more interested in him than your condition, and you hope he feels the same. On the other hand, go watch the movie Children of a Lesser God, and make sure YOU are not tallying up a bunch of mindless affairs to punish yourself, score, forget, or prove something about your alopecia. You may regret it later when you catch something, give birth to something, or finally meet The One (and he rejects you and your loose history). Sometimes you have to think this one through thoroughly if you are NOT being honest, because some men LEAVE!!! How would you handle that? If you are afraid to tell because you might lose his interest, would you feel even worse if you had SUCH a good time or fell in love, and THEN he left? I think this is our eternal dilemma about affairs without truth.

Comment by Norm on December 7, 2010 at 6:52pm

Ermmm.... just to take a step back, Grace, but why is telling him you're bald a no-no? It might not be an issue for him, in which case, this whole question is moot....
Nosy Norm :)

Comment by Paulina on December 7, 2010 at 6:47pm

Kathleen :)
I know - it works :) it's my life experience :)

Comment by KATHLEEN B. on December 7, 2010 at 6:45pm

lol... Funny question....Grace.... absolutely it works ... dont freak out... just enjoy it....lol....but truth of the matter is..the first time i did it with a wig on i was freaking on the inside with the same worries you are having.... lol... But after a little experiece... wigs and sex... it works with no problems...just no aggressive hair pulling;)

Comment by Paulina on December 7, 2010 at 6:34pm

Yeah....... ;)

Comment by Norm on December 7, 2010 at 6:30pm

But fortunately, I access Alopecia World in Braille.... ;)

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