My baldness does not define me anymore!

Hi, my name is Raquel, i am 42 and can honestly say that my hair loss does not define me anymore!

The road was long, bumpy, full of storms, self hate, low self assteem etc. But i am there!

I am loved, and i love! I am at a stage where i wear wigs if i want too and if it is hot i wear nothing but my smile on my face.

Today i know that it all starts in your heart. If you accept yourself everybody else will accept YOU! If you feel uneasy everybody else will not know how to handle you.

At the end..you need to look in the mirror and love yourself. And all else will fall inplace!

"Today you are you! That is truer than true! No one else can be more youer than you" -Seuz

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Comment by Cheryl, Co-founder on August 27, 2013 at 12:54am

Raquel, Welcome to a place of acceptance! I think you said it best, it was a journey of struggles and triumphs for me too.

Comment by Mary on August 27, 2013 at 1:16am

If you haven't gotten Pam Fitros' book, Boldly Bald Women, I think you'd enjoy it. Welcome to the world of being boldly bald!

Comment by Mom of 5 on August 27, 2013 at 6:37am

AMEN!!! You are beautiful!

Comment by Leif Rautenbach Bridgman on August 27, 2013 at 10:31am

Werd..Too almost 20 years for me.found that place too..95% of the time anyway :)

Comment by sci fi babe on August 27, 2013 at 10:11pm

Thank you Raquel!!! I'm on that road right now and working on total acceptance it has been about 3 years that I lost all my body hair but your words are very encouraging for me.. they give me hope that someday I will (totally) accept it and I can't wait:)

Comment by Bald and Fabulous AKA Terri on August 28, 2013 at 1:25am

its taken me many years ...38 years to get to that place, but I still have moments of doubt. You are amazing

Comment by Raquel on August 28, 2013 at 2:39am

Eventually my choices were to always have this war in my head about myself and the way i am, or i could make the best. Since then i've read the fifth agreement that helped me with that last part of my journey' i did permanent make up and went for photoshoot that was posted on facebook. And i promisr you guys...even three years ago i did not want to see myself in a mirror. Hang in there! In all of you i see myself and i also see beautifull people! <3

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