My bitter-sweet valentine: Is this bitter or sweet?

Sweet: Got to train with a Muey Thai "master" if that's the title you give to the top teacher of Muey Thai, I'm an MMA guy and have ventured into Muey Thai as much yet. Also, I'm newly single, threw an all singles kickback. Only invited a few people, ended up having more people there than I thought. All of the extra people were ladies though. We just drank and hung out. It was cool.

Bitter: Got harrassed over the phone all night from my ex fiance', the one I'm newly single from right now, found out she was cheating on me. Sure, I'm over her and moved on, whatever, but she went from making me feel like I'm the one completely to blame for our break up, only to find out on VALENTINE'S DAY that she was cheating on me. I've only been single a week from today.



In all honesty, I can't really tell. Is this bitter or sweet because I'm so full of rage from that little situation

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Comment by Tallgirl on February 15, 2009 at 11:36pm
Only the young think one week means having "moved on." Let me tell you; exes can re-enter your life at many times and stages of growth (one guy figured into my life at 17, 20 and 25). So, after a year, then maybe you can determine if you have really moved on from that one. In the meantime, be your best self so the 35-year-old you will look back and be proud that you handled this maturely, respectfully, but true to self. Then, "she" can really never look back with disgust at you or talk behind your back at 25, 35, 45...85...Don't answer the phone calls, texts or e-mails or the door right now if she acts insane. Don't answer letters that try to trap you into saying things you will regret. See a minister or counselor to get her out of your system. If she harrasses you, get the authorities on it...respectfully, within the law. And go other places. Meet new people. Become the you that YOU can be proud of.
Comment by Deeptide on February 16, 2009 at 7:26pm
Just be glad you dodged a bullet there man. I too am recently single and my ex also slept around right after we broke up. That's just what certain types of girls do and to take time to think about it would be wasting your own time. Avoid her like the plague as that's what she has become to your life.Tallgirl is right, get out there, meet new people and make yourself the person you want to be. It's a win win for you, you'll be happier with yourself, walk away knowing you were the better person and one day she'll regret what she did when she sees how awesome you now are, but by that point you wont care what she feels and you'll have moved light years beyond her. So yah, Win Win. Best of luck man
Comment by Allison Miller on November 16, 2009 at 10:26pm
I agree be glad you got out of that relationship. I broke up with my fiancee about a year ago, that was the best decision I have ever made...he was a jerk.

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