“Please Don’t”

Just for now,
Please don’t tell me that “its just hair” because it is much more than that.
Please don’t tell me that “hopefully it will grow back” because that doesn’t matter right now.
Please don’t tell me I look pretty without, because I do not believe you.
Please don’t tell me that “you thought you noticed something different about me”, because I'm already self-conscience enough.
Please don’t tell me you knew I was wearing hair that’s not my own, because that will break me into pieces.
Please don’t give me well intentioned advice on “how to handle this” because its different for everyone and I am just holding on.
Just be here and be my friend.

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Comment by samantha on March 1, 2012 at 4:46am

thanks everyone for your kind words and encouragement!

Comment by You can do it : ) on January 31, 2012 at 4:55pm

Wow

Comment by Jennah on January 27, 2012 at 9:52pm

Its like you read my mind!

Comment by BTB (John) on January 27, 2012 at 8:47pm

this post ha resonated with so many people and it has validated so many feelings good to someone saying how they feel and not fearing facing there pain.

Comment by SarahW. on January 27, 2012 at 8:29pm

Love the post Samantha. Those feelings I deal with everyday and I often wonder if they'll ever go away. All I guess I can do is "hold on".

Comment by Jill Casaldi on January 27, 2012 at 7:14pm

Your blog is so well written. It is hard enough to cope with the alopecia and I agree sometimes you just dont want to hear that it is just hair especially from people that have full heads of hair.
Great Blog.
Take care,
Jill

Comment by Pat on January 27, 2012 at 6:00pm

Exactly! Well written Samantha...

Comment by Kate on January 27, 2012 at 3:12pm

I love this.

Comment by BTB (John) on January 27, 2012 at 2:37pm

This blog is awesome it expresses exactly what my partner says all the time. The mistakes I mads in the early stages thinking I was being supportive went down the lines describe, and the times I have seen comments on here, as well meaning as they may be are very unfeeling. No one wants to hear they look beautiful bald when they are feeling so freakish, males you wonder how bad you looked with hair if you look better without it. This would have to be the best blog on how it feels to be bald if I had read this years ago I would have been a better husband and friend to my partner. Thanks Samantha.

Comment by mmmm on January 27, 2012 at 8:30am

I really like your blog. That's exactly how I feel too!

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