Relationships, why can't I find one?

Sure I'm only 18 years old and have most of my hair but when I really think about it, what girl would want to date a guy who has bald spots. I mean mine are covered but there's others out there who don't have them covered or have a third of their eyebrow left. It certainly keeps me up at night wondering if I'll have one. Actually does more than keep me up at night, sadly. So my question is where do I start? How do I go about bringing up my alopecia? Or is literally every guy and girl shallow that they can't see past it? Please respond and help me and others out!

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Check out the excellent "Third Date Rule" written by Debbi Fuller a few years ago.

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Comment by Connor013 on August 29, 2013 at 5:32pm
That's sounds pretty good! I've actually am almost done with reading it. Its very useful and well I guess I just have to get back in the game.
Comment by Kimberly Grise on August 29, 2013 at 6:10pm
I hide a lot too. And break ups don't help. Just remember that people say a lot of negative things they do not mean when exiting your life.
Comment by lauren on September 3, 2013 at 6:56pm

I was just upfront and honest about it right away so if any one had a problem with it they could bounce right away. Not everyone is as shallow as you may think people will suprise you. You just have to be honest right away.

Comment by Kate on October 14, 2013 at 11:13pm

I can definitely understand your situation, I often feel the exact same in regards to guys. But as may have said, if a girl can't accept you for who you are as a person then it's not worth the time. Honestly though, you are such an attractive guy, if only you lived in Calgary..

Comment by Connor013 on October 14, 2013 at 11:25pm
Thank you :) it means a lot. Only if you lived in Ohio!
Comment by Heather on March 11, 2014 at 10:25pm

Bald can look super good on guys - if I were you I would just own it!  The bald spots might throw a girl off (which sucks) but if you just own being bald I think that's super attractive.  I know what you mean - I'm a 19 year old girl with alopecia.  It's sort or scary to think about it and to tell someone that you're into that you don't have hair.  Good luck!

Comment by Connor013 on February 12, 2015 at 11:32am
^ true :) but because of it I started bodybuilding it's more of to give them something else to look at. Even though I have gotten MAJOR results, I'm still self conscious :/
Comment by Connor013 on February 16, 2015 at 9:31am
Well thanks :D

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