You know i have worked so hard to get to where i am now. I have a wonderful family who has unfortunately always it seems struggled financially until it seems now. With the high cost of living in Melbourne, interest rates through the roof my family (mum and dad) were not able to provide me with luxuries. So i worked- from 14 years and 9 months (the legal starting age) I worked. Now nine years later I am still working through things have changed.
Now my family is more relaxed, they are able to enjoy. I too have moved on from a checkout position in a major supermarket to a professional role. At 23 I am doing better then the average.
I have a good group of friends, boys that are interested in me, an opportunity to move interstate for a more luxuries job... I have a lot. My health included.
But my hair I am losing every day. You can almost say that I don't have any. Its frightening.
recently, I was asked by a guy that i started seeing but pulled away from due to the hairloss- why i had done so. I was so reluctant to talk about it. I dragged the talk out for weeks to the point where he was so upset with me.
I respect him, so I met up with him not knowing at the time the exact reason I would give him. I ended up saying the truth- without saying the exact thing.
I told him that its really not him- he is lovely, but I felt like it would not be right for me to start something with a person who doesn't know the whole deal. i'm sure he suspects- I was dying on the inside when he said I think i know what it is.
Then he said something- almost worse but now when I think about it as true as the hair loss. He thinks that I'm depressed. I LOLed- I am depressed. I thought that the depression was excused by the fact that I had a reason to be depressed. I am a 23 year old, single woman at the beginning of my independent life and I am about to become bald.
Then when I started to think about it I noticed that a lot of people must think the same thing, from my friends to my colleagues.
Its frightening. It is the truth but I've been so obsessed with the hair loss that I did not ever think about the mental side of things.
These days i struggle all the time.
I know that I driving myself insane- I had so much potential, now I just want to fall asleep and never wake up.
I wanted to get married, to have kids and a home.Now I know that it wont happen. I'm not trying to toot my own horn here but I look good in a wig. i've purchased one but I think it looks like a mop on my head. Its a lace front real human hair.
But irrelevant of all this I can't sleep. I have been getting sleeping tablets from my doctor. I haven't been taking them. I'm collecting.
I don't want to do anything stupid- I'm just saving.
And I'm afraid... So very afraid.
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