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This is the worst day I've had in a long time. I spent two hours in the bathroom looking at and playing with my hair to try and figure out how bad it might look in public. I know I shouldn't care. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. I hate listening to my friends fuss over how they hate their hair when all I see is thick beautiful hair on their heads. My husband says I'm the only one who really notices. Maybe that's true. I wish I could just shave my head and feel like it would be socially acceptable... so no one would look at me and wonder if I was a cancer patient. Ok...enought feeling sorry for myself. Time to get up and get something positive done today!
thanks so much for your kind words
I had the same feeling of wanting to move away.... I could shave my head and then wear a wig (or not) but nobody would know me so it wouldn't matter!! I am grateful for this arena to just vent it all out of my system...sometimes you just want to feel a little sorry for yourself around people who will understand and help you over the hump!
maybe a topper would be the answer.....i know i felt so much beter when i just stoped trying to hide my patches n got a wig!!! x
Oh Amanda,you are going through one of the roughest times with alopecia! I know, understand and validate your agony right now. And the "understanding" of friends and loved ones with whom you share this situation, while well meant, does not help. First, do NOT beat yourself up about what you are feeling. Just because it is not life threatening, it IS life changing and it hurts. Also, when (or IF) you do get to the point of "needing" to wear a wig (and you may NOT get there!), you will find it liberating in a way. Wigs can be affordable, beautiful and very comfortable. I know it is not your hair ( well it IS since you bought it!). but you will adjust and probably more quickly than you can imaging. And finally, I relate to your wanting to "go away"---my greatest thinning happened while I was on vacation and this was easier being among strangers. Your next hurdle will be telling others in the concentric circles of those closest to you. And this will be easier than you imagine as well. May God bless you, Amanda. This is a road no one wants to be on, but strangely, blessing will result. And have a little cry ( or a big tantrum!) now and then. You are allowed!
Just wanted to let you know that your words do NOT fall upon deaf ears....as a man, it is easier for me to deal with because i can shave it but i still deal with the feelings that come from lossing my hair! If i see someone who hasnt seen me in a while, they ask why i shaved it and then comes the alopecia convo and funny ?'s about it.... Its just awkward and it seems like its hard for people to grasp! People dont tend to accept what they dont understand but still we must push on and remain positive about our situation. I belive judy winkle^^^ offered great advice, as well as others and i am thankful for this site and the people on it! Since this was your worst day, that means they can only get better! Try staying busy with fun activities and people/things you enjoy!
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