June 2, 2009
Just after I went to the Dr to basically confirm what I already knew, I started to really look around the intar-web on Alopecia. Started to feel that
Woe is me wash over me. The more I read about AA/AU/AB/AT, the more I thought that maybe I should be at odds with who or what gave me this! I was really pumped up and mad.
I thought I had it bad when my facial hair went. I could feel the burning/tingling at each attack site. Watching the hair pattern simply... go away. I've had a moustache for over 20+ years! Why?! How did I get this Auto-immune thing ?
I asked my father if anyone in the family (both sides that he knew of) had Alopecia. I searched through my family tree and couldn't see anything other than normal male pattern baldness in a few relatives.
That's when I read that the
Diabetes my mother had (yes, she died from it) was also a form of
Auto-immune. Suddenly my previous rage crashed. The mother I watched all my life giving herself shots of insulin and having I don't remember how many
insulin reactions. The mother I grew up with had diabetes. All I knew back then was that she couldn't eat sweet things (unless she was having a reaction) and had to watch her diet. Little did I know that her form of AI hated her ability to process sugars.
So reading up on Alopecia Areata, I found it was an Auto-immune "disorder" (I don't like the idea or sound of it being called a disease. A disease is life threatening [IMO]). This disorder happens to hate hair (not life-threatening).
So with this information fresh in my head and my resignation with my fate (giving up? hardly! It WILL grow back!), I went to my boss and let them know that I would be cutting off my hair in the very near future. I got the expected questions of how/why/what about Alopecia.
I was letting a few co-workers know about my "condition" and the upcoming change in my appearance. Basically I was sitting on a pity-pot and wanting plenty.
That's when I was approached by a female co-worker that let me know she has another form of Auto-immune (Which kind is private). She needs to take meds for the rest of her life.
That little tidbit she gave me knocked me out of my self absorbed pity. Here I have AA and the worst I have to do is shave my head or put on a wig or hat. Wow... I have it soooooo hard. My mother had to give herself DAILY shots of insulin. My co-worker has to take meds as well as continue to get checked on to see if things get better or worse.
So that was last Thursday... Today, I bought myself a new razor, grabbed my camera and went straight to the barber. I was asked if I was sure.
I was positive. I started to explain the goings on and the guy cutting my hair (a 24 yr old) said he had a small bout with Alopecia but it grew back. He said (along with another barber in the shop) that it is mostly stress related and I should not worry and not be so stressed.
So let me review the stress I have recently gone through that may have "urged on" my AA.
Moved back to WA in 2007 (kinda un-expected *_* )
Started working (graveyard shifts FTL >_< )
Lost 50 lbs. (FTW! ^_^ )
Got braces. (another WIN! wanted them long ago but too much $$$)
Got dental implants (2) (had some help with these, so added stress ~_~ )
Change in work position (move from night to day shifts)
I'm sure there may be more, but that is the highlights of the past 2 yrs.
While I'm sure stress is a factor in Alopecia, it's not the only trigger. What major stresses does someone have when they are under 10? Growing up, I don't recall seeing anyone with Alopecia, but then again, 30+ years ago, I didn't know much less care what Aolpecia is. (Sorry if I sound a bit cold, but when you're a kid, you don't think too long on things that aren't happening specifically to yourself.)
So while I have it hard, I KNOW there are others out there that have far worse things going on with their bodies than hair not wanting to grow. That fact alone helps keep thoughts of selfishness at bay, thankfully.
I can only wonder what others are going though, but for me, I think I got off rather lucky if this is all I have going on in my life.
-Jay
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