OK you guys I really need you today! I've been dating this decent man for seven years. He knows all about my AA and seemed to be fine with it. I asked him to become a friend to me here and he simply said no! His reason was because I was enough, why would he want to see more pics of people like me. IDIOT! I just wanted him to see how cool the pics were and how beautiful you guys looked. I'm beginning to see that people aren't always as comfortable as they seem, even family. I just decided not to ask anybody to join as a friend (so-called). I guess it is too much to ask for support from the people who want you to hide the most. They may not say it, but actions sure speaks volumes! It's so sad to invest time in people who are just shameful for you on the inside, because it will come out. Why do people keep worrying about something you no longer worry about! Maybe it's just time to examine this kind of love and look for something a lot more genuine! I am not ashame, or sick, or gay. I'm just a woman with a hair condition. When will people grow up!!