My first YouTube video from August 2008 showing how I tie Turkish scarves, and talking about going out in public bald.

The hand-crocheted edging is called "oya" and the way I tie the scarves is based on the way Turkish and Bulgarian women traditionally tie their scarves. I learned about these through my folk dance activies years ago, and they came in handy when I lost my hair!

The woman I bought the scarves shown in the video from isn't selling them currently, but there are other sellers on eBay. Let me know if you need any advice on what to look for.

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Comment by Mary on September 14, 2009 at 5:00pm
Hi Kirsteen - glad you like the video! I made it a little over a year ago. I still wear the scarves when I want something on my head, and when it's cool enough. But, I'm mostly going out bald these days - there are recent photos on my page of me performing in SD and LA. Best, Mary
Comment by Kirsteen Forrest on September 14, 2009 at 4:51pm
Hi Mary! Thank you for making a wonderful video! I wear scarves sometimes but didnt know quite how to get the volume I liked or make them look as stylish whilst being comfortable. Thanks to you - I now do and I feel great in them. Hope you are well?

Kirsteen
Comment by Mary on August 17, 2009 at 1:06pm
Hi Pamela,

Unfortunately, the nice lady in Wisconsin who I bought all those scarves from doesn't seem to be there anymore...my emails haven't reached her. There are Turkish "oya" scarves like these on eBay, but I liked hers best after trying several sellers. If you search online or on eBay for "Turkish oya" you'll find sellers. Be aware of the size...they vary quite a bit. As I said on the video, 31-33" square work best on my head for how I tie them. Let me know how you do. Mary
Comment by Pamela S on August 17, 2009 at 8:35am
Hi Mary, thanks for your great video. Where did you get your scarves from? I've been looking for something similar in NZ for those times that it's a bit cooler (it is winter downunder right now) but haven't found anything. Any tips? Cheers, Pamela
Comment by Mary on August 11, 2009 at 10:35pm
Thank you for thoughts, Mina - beautiful as always.
Comment by MiNAH on August 11, 2009 at 10:14pm

Thank you Mary, for showing how this Scarf/Bandanna is wrapped and put on correctly.
I would do this for years, without any idea if I was doing it right,
With sadness and hurt, that I was doing it in fear for others perception about me.
I would be so uncomfortable, even angry at my self and others for projecting their opinion onto me.
Forcing me to Cover Up.
Even looking at myslef as I wrapped my head, made me feel worthless.
Just as you, I too...eventually... decided to take the Plunge and go without head covering.
I wouldn't conform any longer...as It was about time I faced my own insecurities.
I followed my Human Right to be Free!
That was 1982...and it's been a long Journey...some days good...some days bad!
Yes, If we could have hair back, it would be a wonderful thing.
I could even learn to "FLiP MY HAiR"

Like I said "DON'T BECOME A PRiSONER IN YOUR OWN LiFE"
"DON'T LET THEiR PERCEPTiONS...WRiTE THE STORY iN YOUR BOOK"
"TRiLLiONS OF TEARS.....FLOODiNG THE YEARS!
By MiNA

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